Ok so me an oh live together he owns house we both pay £500 a month for bills wen I start mat I on 90% for first 6 weeks then straight to stat so less than £500 a month wen it's taxed, he still expects me to pay my £500 a month using my overdraft leavin me to live off my overdraft for my mat leave an he says he can't afford to pay nemore so I have to pay it all? We both earn bout £1300 a month after tax ATM so now it's not a problem but wen I'm on maternity that's all my money gone....
He says we can't afford for me to take 6 months mat leave iv been told by so many people that if I don't take 6 months il regret it as it's the only time il ave that opportunity to spend with my first child an that I shudnt miss it?
I feel like I'm alone in the whole financial aspect of bringing up this child I mean he buys things on his c card for baby but he's giving me no help at all while I'm on mat leave I am so disappointed in him, I feel lke he's really let me down an I don't feel supported at all I feel like a single parent already?
Sorry this goes on a bit I'm just lost don't know wot to go thanks for reading, ne advise is greatly appreciated xxxx
He says we can't afford for me to take 6 months mat leave iv been told by so many people that if I don't take 6 months il regret it as it's the only time il ave that opportunity to spend with my first child an that I shudnt miss it?
I feel like I'm alone in the whole financial aspect of bringing up this child I mean he buys things on his c card for baby but he's giving me no help at all while I'm on mat leave I am so disappointed in him, I feel lke he's really let me down an I don't feel supported at all I feel like a single parent already?
Sorry this goes on a bit I'm just lost don't know wot to go thanks for reading, ne advise is greatly appreciated xxxx