Hi, I'm a newbie - 7 weeks preggers after 2 years trying to conceive. I should be really excited and enjoying the whole experience but there is one problem...
DH has changed his feelings along the way. He said we could try for a baby as he knew it was now or never (I'm 36) and he didn't want to lose me. It took us longer than expected and I guess he might have started to think it was never going to happen, but low and beyond a miracle occurred and I got my long awaited
Anyway to cut a long story short - DH is now acting very strange - almost recentful towards me. He won't talk about the baby at all and has stopped cuddling me and showing any affection. I feel very lonely and scared that I am going to go through this whole thing on my own (not physically as I am sure he'll always be by my side, just emotionally if you get what I mean).
I have tried to talk to him and he has promised he will try to meet me half way but the thought of sleepless nights, a screaming baby and financial pressure is too much for him.
I have been told that he will change when the baby comes along - I really hope so.
Does anyone else's other half feel similar?
DH has changed his feelings along the way. He said we could try for a baby as he knew it was now or never (I'm 36) and he didn't want to lose me. It took us longer than expected and I guess he might have started to think it was never going to happen, but low and beyond a miracle occurred and I got my long awaited
Anyway to cut a long story short - DH is now acting very strange - almost recentful towards me. He won't talk about the baby at all and has stopped cuddling me and showing any affection. I feel very lonely and scared that I am going to go through this whole thing on my own (not physically as I am sure he'll always be by my side, just emotionally if you get what I mean).
I have tried to talk to him and he has promised he will try to meet me half way but the thought of sleepless nights, a screaming baby and financial pressure is too much for him.
I have been told that he will change when the baby comes along - I really hope so.
Does anyone else's other half feel similar?