haha. I think we're all weirdos around here.

CM is seeming to be drier than it was when I O'd naturally. Femara does seem to be drying me out a bit. Thankfully, we're doing IUI this cycle, so I'm not worried about it, but I was hoping for signs that things were more "normal" this cycle. Saturday is CD12 u/s so I'll get to see how my lining is doing then. As for other symptoms, I'm still getting hot flashes. They got more intense the last couple days of Femara and then the couple days after. Now they are back to super mild. They never did get as bad as Clomid. Irritability seems to be fading quickly. Oh, and I became a royal b*tch for the last couple days of Femara and for two days after. Again, less so than on Clomid- at least I wasn't totally out of my head- but still, poor DH! Now I'm just dealing with some Metformin side effects. Still learning what not to eat on these pills.
As far as at-home IUI goes, we decided to go with it after I realized I was uncomfortable doing IUI at the RE's office. (I cancelled the IUI the day of trigger last cycle.) I just couldn't get past the loss of intimacy. I guess after having 8 different doctor's visits, blood draws, nurse conferences, etc, over the past two weeks, I just couldn't take them doing anymore. I knew I wasn't going to be able to get through the IUI without breaking down, so we cancelled.
DH and I had talked about home IUI earlier last year, so we decided to look back into it. At the time it seemed like it would just be easier to have the RE do, but now that I knew that wasn't an option for me, we started doing a little more research. Turn out the IUI is super simple to do and it will save us $1500-$2500 a cycle to do it this way. Right now everything gets billed to insurance as "anovulation treatment" which is covered under our plan, but as soon as IUI is brought out, the billing code changes to infertility, which is not covered, so everything that is being payed for now would become OOP costs.
Procedure Stuff: I purchased all the supplies online and DH will do the insemination. The washes cost $100 each and we'll be doing to IUI's, one the day after trigger and another the next day. I called up the sperm bank and got all the details about when we need to call to set up wash appts (right after hCG trigger), how long we have to get them DH's sample (1 hr in a sterile sample cup, ordered off supply site), how long we have to get back to the house (IUI is best done within 1-1.5 hours though it can be done later as long as sperm are kept warm, we're 45 minutes from the lab, so we'll try to be quick), and what to do for IUI's on weekends or holidays (they have a special on-call person who can do the wash). I'm feeling really good about everything and am looking forward to my CD12 u/s on Saturday.
Here are the main links DH and I are using to get everything ready and do the procedure:
Procedure Supplies: https://shop.inseminationsupplies.com/main.sc
Sterile swabs to clean cervix: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00...ls_o04_s00_i00
Sterile paper drapes to keep everything clean: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00...ls_o06_s00_i00
Teaching DH to use the speculum: https://www.sisterzeus.com/usingspeculum.html
And so he knows what to look for: https://www.sisterzeus.com/cervob.htm
Best IUI instructions I've found: https://theivp.com/ladybusiness/
Local pricing on Colorado sperm wash: https://www.cryogam.com/AT-ReproductiveProcedures.html