Bentleymom
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So, I'm a young momma(26) and I have a son(4) who has autsim. I always knew I wanted another child, but wanted to wait untill I had finished my degree and had a good job, all of which I have now 😊. But all I ever get from ppl and family members was comments when they see my son about how they bet I'll never have another one. Honestly, it really hurt my feelings when they would say this, but I'd just laugh it off. All the while secretly wanting another one. My son is a handful, but what child isn't lol. Anyways my OH and I had been ttc for 1 year after I got my iud removed and finally got pregnant over Christmas and I just found out this last Tuesday I'm expecting #2!!! We are so happy!! But we never told anyone we are ttc and now when it's time to tell the family I'm pregnant I am worried about being judged. I would like to scream at them this was a planned child, but I feel like I will be less judged for having another of a pretend it was an accident. But I so don't feel like I should have to lie to avoid the negative comments e.g. "What were you thinking" ect. Anyone in a similar boat?