seoj
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I do feel like mine started the moment I got that pos+ HPT! BUT... it changed and grew as my LO grew... and when she arrived I was so in love, but so surreal all at once! But I went into auto mode with her and felt I needed to do anything I could to keep her safe and happy... but I swear that love and bond just grows more each day (if that's even possible)- LOL. I guess there is no amount your heart can't hold.
I know it's very common for that "bond" to form a bit later on though-- as we are not only dealing with a new baby but trying to recover and cope with healing from the deliver etc... not to mention the hormones! I would guess the love any Mother feels for their child at first would only get stronger and more powerful with time... but maybe I just see it that way And no matter how long you are a parent, they can certainly do things at times to frustrate us or drive us mad! LOL. I know my 14yrs old still does at times... but that never changes the unconditional love we feel
I know it's very common for that "bond" to form a bit later on though-- as we are not only dealing with a new baby but trying to recover and cope with healing from the deliver etc... not to mention the hormones! I would guess the love any Mother feels for their child at first would only get stronger and more powerful with time... but maybe I just see it that way And no matter how long you are a parent, they can certainly do things at times to frustrate us or drive us mad! LOL. I know my 14yrs old still does at times... but that never changes the unconditional love we feel