Didn't take Folic acid and other vitamins

[BEG19]

Ladies,

I think queencarrie was merely trying to light heartedly reassure the OP regarding something the OP cannot change at this point and time.

And the other point she is trying to make IMO is that the standards DO change over the years. There are all kinds of things I was advised/not advised to do with my 14 year old that are completely different now.

She also was trying to say that parenting by instinct usually is what is best for your child. And she is right BTW. I don't think she was thumbing her nose in the face of science.

Let's keep this place somewhere we can go to be supportive of each other.

 

[billlumbergh]

Ladies,

I think queencarrie was merely trying to light heartedly reassure the OP regarding something the OP cannot change at this point and time.

And the other point she is trying to make IMO is that the standards DO change over the years. There are all kinds of things I was advised/not advised to do with my 14 year old that are completely different now.

She also was trying to say that parenting by instinct usually is what is best for your child. And she is right BTW. I don't think she was thumbing her nose in the face of science.

Let's keep this place somewhere we can go to be supportive of each other.

very nicely put, here here!

 

[queencarrie]

thank you someone who gets my points that was exactly what i was trying to get across
was starting to feel victimised slightly there

 

[BEG19]

thank you someone who gets my points that was exactly what i was trying to get across
was starting to feel victimised slightly there

You're welcome.

Nobody need feel like that around here.

Although I always appreciate and respect everyone's input and opinions, it is important to be mindful of the feelings of others. If people are intimidated and/or criticized then nobody would post! What kind of forum would that be!

I don't think anyone intended to do that, and let us not forget that many people have a hard time conceiving and carrying children, so it is very natural for people to weigh in passionately as this is a passionate subject.

We ALL want what is best for our pregnancies, babies and children, period.

That is the common thread that binds all of us.

 

[Andypanda6570]

thank you someone who gets my points that was exactly what i was trying to get across
was starting to feel victimised slightly there

I get exactly what your saying . My first son is 20 and with him we were to put him on his stomach for sleeping , my second son is 17 and for him put him on his side for sleeping and my third son is 11 it was put him on his back things have changed over the years, when my first was 3 months old we started to spoon feed ,now if you say that it's like WHAT are you crazy! Things are forever changing with the years . I am taking FA now, but with my other 3 I never even heard of Folic Acid . I think you will be fine , now your pregnant and do just what your doctor says. You will be fine and good luck