Dilemma..

[samzi]

Of whether to wait til have AF after the mc to start TTC again or start now!

 

[WelshRose]

Hi Hun,
I didn't want to read and run but I think only you can answer that babe.
Only you know whether you are emotionally ready or not, I think in most cases it tends to be for ease of dating that they reccomend you wait and not for any physical reason.

Sorry for your loss hun and goodluck for when you decide the time is right

 

[JASMAK]

I always waited until my first normal AF afterwards, just to minimize any risk caused from a wacky cycle. Good luck with whatever you decide.

 

[samzi]

Emotionally im pretty sure i am, im just scared of another mc but that could happen if we start trying after the AF anyway. Just have to try not to stress over it too much this time i guess.

 

[Logiebear]

I started trying again straight away and just thought, what ever will be will be and I got pregnant the following cycle after my last m/c. So I had my erpc in May and got pregnant 2nd cycle. It is your choice though and you have to do what you feel ready for hun xxx

 

[charliesmom]

I would wait for one AF so you KNOW exactly when you ovulated and have your dates all correct. It helps to know everything is developing correctly the next time you're pregnant.

 

[susan_1981]

I was given a leaflet yesterday after my ERPC. It's from The Miscarriage Association and in it it says "Many doctors suggest waiting until you have had one period. This makes it easier to calculate the number of weeks pregnant the pregnancy may be. If you do become pregnant earlier, the risk of having a miscarriage should be no greater than if you wait. In some cases, however, your doctor will advise that you wait for longer perhaps because of medical complications. Ask if you are unsure".

Well I wasn't told of any medical complications so I plan to start again straight away. Good luck xxx

 

[samzi]

Thanks for that susan Im seeing OH this weekend and i plan to pounce on him on friday

 

[susan_1981]

Thanks for that susan Im seeing OH this weekend and i plan to pounce on him on friday

Go for it!!! I can't wait to start pouncing on my husband again! Good luck xxx

 

[samzi]

He knows whats in store and hes not complaining. What a surprise lol

 

[samzi]

Think ive been Ov'ing last few days as had lots of cm. I didnt think it was poss this soon but apparantly it is. Roll on the weekend!.

How you doing susan?

 

[Waiting4Bump]

I guess it's just down to the individual and when you feel ready again. I say go for it, and good luck hun xx

 

[KKSARAH]

well I planned on waiting 6 months then this changed to 3 months then to 1 cycle then we thought what the hell, lets go for it we both felt it was right for us.

Good luck to all us ladies