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Hi girls

My friend has had a mmc diagnosed this morning, its her 3rd. She's 7+5 from assumed date of LMP with no foetal pole. She's not entirely sure of her dates so i asked her to ask if there has been any growth from last week when she gets her bloods this afternoon. She is in pieces.

It's really bought it back for me. Despite being in a totally different place, its amazing how quickly your emotions can land right back there at a moments notice.

On a more mundane note, i have decided to go for jewel colours in the nursery.

Hope youre all good.
 
:hug: NATO I was talking to my sister about this bubs (I've told her and my trainer) and I was telling her about how this baby has the same due date as the one I lost. While she was sympathetic about it, I don't think she fully understood the level of panic that is creating on this pregnancy. She was excited though!

Today I am a sweet pea.
 
:hug: NATO I was talking to my sister about this bubs (I've told her and my trainer) and I was telling her about how this baby has the same due date as the one I lost. While she was sympathetic about it, I don't think she fully understood the level of panic that is creating on this pregnancy. She was excited though!

Today I am a sweet pea.

happy sweet pea day, sweet pea!

thats a coincidence and a half - i can totally see why it would add to the jitters....or on the other hand, maybe your angel is looking after this one.
 
Nato-:hugs: to you and your friend. Does she have any kids or is she still trying to have her 1st... either way it is heartbreaking:nope: I'm glad she has you to help her out during this time. Its nice to be surrounded by people who understand what you are going through

Happy 6 weeks Jaymes:happydance: the same due date is a little scary but I like what Nato said about your angel watching over this baby.
 
She's got an 8 year old, shes not someone i have seen for a long time as shes from back home but i think shes been in touch so much because as far as shes aware, im the only person to have suffered mc. Her best friend (our mutual friend) had a baby on Saturday night so i think she feels she cant burst her happy bubble so she is defo feeling alone

have you tried a grape with penny yet? how did she react?

this made me giggle today

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ar...om-Hilarious-exam-answers-given-students.html
 
I didn't try a grape but she did have couple licks of an apple. Her face was so funny! When I was eating the apple she kept trying to pull my hand closer to her mouth so she could get another taste:haha: Then she would keep opening and closing her mouth like she was trying to eat it.
 
oh thats adorable, shes so sweet! i tried cucumber today and eloise pulled a puzzled face then tried to sneak it into her mouth, she does the same, holding onto my hand
 
Nato :hugs: to you and your friend. Im so sorry to hear shes going through it, its good that shes got you to talk too but sorry its bought back the emotions. Despite being in a good place it is always with us I was talking to steve about the other day & he was saying that what we've been through has definitely changed me.

Thats so sweet that Penny and Eloise are trying new tastes. Before you know it they'll be trying to grab food of your plate. I love the faces they make Benjamin has a great one when he doesnt like a food Ive given him he scrunches his little nose up and sticks his tongue out.

Amanda good luck today hope you get to find out if baby hearty is a :blue: or :pink:

Jaymes happy 6 weeks :hugs:
 
oo is it 3 days from when hearty said her scan was in 3 days then? DAMN i forgot to send her my mobile number, im going to have to wait until tomorrow. no fair.

cant wait to hear that news, now im going to have to wait

Luce it does change you, the person you were before has gone. i think its changed me for the better but i dont like thinking anything positive came out of a baby losing its life. Makes me angry at myself that things like that have to happen before i get my gormless arse into gear and realise things i should have realised before

I want to see a video of ben rejecting food please. I once gave a baby i babysat for a slice of lemon once. It might well be the funniest thing i have ever seen.

Vic - get well soon!! youre having a right old time of it, i think the stress is running your system down.
 
Thanks Nato...

I cant beleive im fucking sick again....I had a doctor over today as my fever wasnt going down at all and she said it looks like my sinusitis is back with a vengance. I guess the blood and puss coming out of my nose was a giveaway. I have to take antibiotics yet again only a couple of weeks after my last round. Cant fucking beleive it...
I think you are right that the stress and lack of unbroken sleep this past year has taken its toll. I need to get my shit together as soon as im better. Need to sort out the nursery and get Hero in her own room. I dont know if i told you guys but the place we are renting belongs to the parents of my friend who dies last year of a heart attack. The second bedroom was the room he grew up in and as its quite small they did built in furniture at the time which is still there 25 years later. Obviously i need to remove it to make a nursery. I discussed this with his mother before Christmas and she didnt seem to really like the idea. Obviously i totaaly understand that shes not ready to move on but I need to get hero a room of her own. So next week im gonna approach her again and tell her that im ok if she doesnt want to get rid of them but in that case we will have to move. This needs to be settled soon or else ill never be able to settle her in her own room. I really need to get her in a routine, i dont think i can take any more lack of sleep. i might even have to resort to CIO which i really want to avoid...

Hearty shit i completely forgot it was your scan today!!! Cant wait for some good news!!!!
 
Vicky sorry to hear your poorly hope you feel better soon, you really have been through it this year. What a tough situation it must be hard for her but you definitely to know where you stand so you can get a room ready for Hero. We're thinking of moving Benjamin into his own room I wonder if we disturb him sometimes.

Nato I will try and get him on camera trying some new foods.
 
Sorry girls, haven't caught up. Just wanted to let you know I had my scan and everything is perfect. They were supposed to just look at the cervix, but the woman couldn't resist and did an anatomy scan too. She said she didn't even see common minor abnormalities that end up being normal. She said everything was just perfect. So was my cervix. The placenta was in a good location which means I'm a good candidate for a vaginal birth. And most importantly, I found out the gender! BUT, I promised Tim he would be the first to know and he wants me to tell him in person. So now I'm just waiting for him to come home from work so I can tell him. This is going to be the longest 2 hours of my life. I'm not even calling my mom.

Most of you are in bed anyway, so by the time you wake up, you'll get to see the news.

Ok, going back to catch up now.
 
Here are some pics of my baby. No potty shots yet. Can't give that away just yet. I'm in love with the little nose on the last profile pic.

https://i1234.photobucket.com/albums/ff419/ahartrey/e4eca559.jpg

https://i1234.photobucket.com/albums/ff419/ahartrey/a4463e87.jpg

https://i1234.photobucket.com/albums/ff419/ahartrey/199ba409.jpg
 
Hubby just came home. Told him. Called my mom. You girls are next in line.

It's a.........

GIRL!!!

:pink::pink::pink::cloud9::cloud9::cloud9::cloud9::cloud9::cloud9::cloud9:
 
I am so happy for you Amanda what wonderful pictures little hearty is just perfect you must be on :cloud9: Im :cry: happy tears for you I cant expressed how happy I am for you :happydance:

I want to know I want to know ok Im going to have exciting news to wake up too. Tim hurry up home.

Right Im going to attempt to get my little boy back down.

:hugs:
 
Here's the potty shot to prove it. Nothing between the legs! My husband said it will stay that way until she's married! Nothing between her legs. LOL!

I asked the sonographer if she was positive it was a girl and she said 100%. The little one was spreading her legs for us to make sure.

https://i1234.photobucket.com/albums/ff419/ahartrey/64263f0a.jpg
 
YAYYYYY!!! So, so happy for you. I actually just screamed out loud....my husband thinks I'm crazy!!

Congrats!!!!!!!
 

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