Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

I'm still reading and formulating a reply. I seriously can't believe how much I missed in a few days.

A twin mama on the PAL thread had her babies early this morning at 34 weeks and they're doing great. I'm in a bit of shock!
 
wonder how rounders is. exciting.

Hearty - would really appreciate your take on my weekend if you find time

Luce - your dad sounds like a good man. Good for him for protecting you and your mum from that. And its lovely to hear how self aware your mum is, being considerate to others. It's such a sad fact that many who have been treated in a certain way, then go on to treat others that way - it takes a strong person to break behaviours, i know its not her childhood stuff but it does still have an effect and can be repeated.

haha Jen & bum patches
 
Rounders is slowly loosing her frigen mind! Hospital still hasn't called to tell me to come in. Everytime the phone rings I have mini-heart attack!!This is torture.
 
Nice lamp Naters but £1,600??? Really??

Hoping for some Rounders news :happydance:
 
Oh gosh round that's bad you must be on tender hooks xxxx

Nato it was the most attractive thing ever haha

Did any of experience really low down movement like on your cervix I'm finding it rather weird and it's like he could burst the waters any min xxx
 
Jenny, I had that low down cervix pain for months. My guy has been super low since day one. When he headbutts my cervix it feels like he's gonna fall out....and like I said, it's been like this for months!! I'm sure it's perfectly normal.
 
Yeh Jenny, I had that so bad with Zac, Horrible feeling huh!

Oh that sucks round, could you phone them? Just say you need to sort childcare!x
 
Ya, I think if they haven't called by the morning, I call in to see where I am on the list. I'm kind of glad it didn't happen today. I've gotten the laundry and cleaning done. Now I'm thinking I should do some jumping jacks for something to induce labor myself!! Or I guess I could have sex....if I still remember how!!
 
Nato, I've read about the MIL situation. I promise I will reply. I got caught up in the news of my girl on the PAL thread having her twins. Also I'm working today and am meeting with a pediatrician in a few hours. I promise I'll respond later tonight!

Round, I'd be a wreck right now! Don't they realize they are dealing with a pregnant woman!?!? I'm so sorry honey. I can't give you advice on how to have sex as I haven't had it in months either!

Jen, my baby's head is on my cervix. I get those feelings too. I've had them for months. They are no fun, but they are normal.
 
It's really weird I was walking along the street and I was getting these sharp shooting pains in my foof I was like ouch I actually stopped in my tracks and didn't move lol xxx
 
Jen, it's called Lightening Crotch. Google it. It's a real thing. Do you remember me talking about it a while back? It's really awful and really normal. The baby is hitting nerves in your cervix!
 
Oh wow, I really missed a lot in the past few days. But I did it! I read through EVERYTHING!

Allie, I think the girls have given you some great advice about weight loss. I became addicted to the app “My Fitness Pal” It lets you enter the food you eat and it counts your calories for the day. You can also enter the exercise you’ve done and it will calculate that into your daily calorie goal. It really helps you see what you are eating and how many calories are in things. It might not be as easy to do with a baby, but it really helped me.

Nato, you and I eat very similar things. I’ve never been a big sugar person. But I do love fresh fruit, beans, veggies. Mmmmm. Like Vicky, cheese can be a downfall for me if I’m not careful. I’ve never met a cheese I didn’t like. Aside from wine/alcohol, the only thing I ever drink is water and green tea. I do love sparkling water with lemon or lime. Soda is evil.

Vicky, sorry I missed Electra’s anniversary. And I’m extra sorry someone decided to make the day harder for you with stupid comments. I don’t know what he said, but I always find it interesting how people expect us to “forget” or “move on” from our losses. Especially if you end up having living children. I don’t think that trauma and grief ever leave us. People just don’t get that. My mother is friends with a woman in her 70’s. She was telling this friend about my losses and the woman shared that she had 6 miscarriages. She has 3 living children, but she said she is still affected by those losses. It never goes away. On a separate note, can I just tell you how much I admire your ability to keep the party going. I love looking at your FB pics. You give me hope that mommyhood doesn’t mean I can’t have a good time!

Jen, I think the ladies gave you great advice. I wish Paul was being more understanding. You sound really down right now. I know how hard this pregnancy has been for you. The last thing you need to be worrying about is your marriage. I’m not sure I have any great advice for you. Men are different creatures. But I’m sending you massive hugs. :hugs:

Lucy, you look gorgeous in that dress. OMG! What a stunner!

Hoping, I’m loving all the FB photos and videos. You have such a cutie pie.

No news from me. My contractions have settled down, but I still get them every day. I read that the more BH you have, the faster the labor because your uterus is getting exercise. If that’s the case, my uterus should be in the Olympics! I swear it’s the most fit uterus on the planet.
 
Thanks so much for the professional opinion Hearty.

Great your athletic uterus is giving you a bit of a break...no red raspberry tea for you then? Are you still on much reduced activity i assume? whens your next app? Fab news about the PAL pal with twins. No twins i know of from the BnBers i talk to, such a rare gift!

Jen, i got serious cervix pains, i could feel eloise's head turning round and it felt like electric shocks. Earlier in the pregnancy she used to kick my cervix as she was transverse. Not fun, but i dont think its dangerous for your water membranes or owt - makes you flinch though

Rounders, hoping your sanity stays in place - why the bloody hell havent they phoned? have you called them? ahh read back you will call in morning. Eat a curry in the meantime, less exhausting than sex. Youre doing well, I wouldnt be making any sense at all by now.
 
No tea of any kind for me. I'm too scared to take herbs or drink caffeine. Though I just noticed there is some red raspberry leaf in my prenatals! I think I might get a new brand. They are supposed to be these great, all natural ones but what if they are causing the contractions? Jerks.

Yes, I'm still on very reduced activity. My uterus isn't, nor is my baby, but I am. I can barely walk to the bathroom without getting winded these days. I'm so out of shape!

Next appointment is in a week and 3 days. Just a regular visit with the doc. Then in 2 weeks and 3 days I start doing weekly monitoring. They'll do the non stress test, an ultrasound to look at amniotic fluid, and god help me, possibly manual cervix checks. That's it! Then it's just having the baby!
 
Athletic uterus hahaha!!

Hearty id like to take all credit for keeping the party going but really its all thanks to my mom who babysits one night a week so that me and Alex can go out. Obviously we could have used this one night for going to bed early and getting some much need rest but we are refusing to give up on fun just yet lol! I love going out and dancing, I get really crazy if I dont have my weekly fix!

Some good news for me and Alex, I have to go to a conference in Paris in September and my boss decided to pay for Alex to come along too so we will be celebrating our anniversary in Paris woohoo!!! 5 star hotel and all!!! Bring on those juicy rare fillet steaks man!!!
 
OMG theres red raspberry in your prenatals??? Jerks. you arent supposed to have that until that last few weeks as you know, defo bin those.
 
Fab news Vicky. What a great way to spend your anniversary.

Glad baby hearty is still inside, you've done amazingly well with all the bed rest etc. you're on the home straight now.

I actually have to disagree with some comments, about it being bad for us to hear negative stuff about our parents?? My mum and dad talked so much shit on each other for years and I never took any notice, as soon as I grew up I made my own opinions, they were both in fact terrible parents, lucky me!
 
My mother's father hated my dad, he used to make sarcastic remarks all the time. Once when i was 12 i got so angry i told him off and vowed never to visit him again. True to my words, i didnt even go to his funeral 10 years ago.
 

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