Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[vickyd]

Nato i was trying to see the pic last night, we have no internet at home yet and i had laptop in hand on te veranda trying to steal some WiFi from any neighbour that had it unsecured!!! I managed a quick peak and i saw the line without having to position laptop under any kind of light!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YAYAYAYAYAY!!!!!!! Ill be online all day so will hold your hand in a cyberly fashion at 3pm!!!

Hero had a bad fall at the park yesterday! We were playing football and i got a bit excited and kicked the ball right on her legs and as she fumbed for the ball she fell backwards and landed with a loud thump on her head! Poor baby got a huge bump and i had no ice or water to help bring down the swelling....All night she held her head and repeated Ouch which was sad but also very cute. She also went on her own from her room to mine so I guess she is slowly getting used to her new home.

 

[Sassy_TTC]

Roll on 3pm, I'll feel preggo for you.

Ahhh poor hero, did she sleep okay with her ouchie head? Glad Shea starting to adjust in the new house.x

 

[LucyJ]

Im keeping everything crossed for you Nato.

Im not sure we will try only because I feel rubbish and is the last thing I want to be doing. Woke up this morning with a scratchy throat cant stop sneezing and my eyes are so sore I just want to curl up and sleep (I tried to convince steve to take benjamin to work with him Im sure hes be really helpful ) it may be hayfever or something I had an allergic reaction to my new sils cat just a minor one but maybe connected. Benjamin woke up far to early for my liking and would not settle in bed with us like he used to, this morning he decided to sit on my head so we got up.

Vicky poor hero hope her head feels better this morning sounds like shes getting used to her new home.

 

[vickyd]

She woke up at five calling for me, i went into her room to settle her but all she wanted to do was show me her hand which was covered in pink marker from our coloring session earlier on. I gave her a cuddle and stuck her dummy in her mouth and thank god she went back to sleep!!!

 

[LucyJ]

Thats good she went back to sleep, did you?

 

[vickyd]

I was asleep before reaching my bed lol!!!!!

Nato where are u??? Need updates...

 

[yogi77]

5:30am here and I'm up checking for nato's poas. Good god. Fx for you.

I think I'll try to go back to sleep a bit more before missy wakes up.

 

[yogi77]

Lucy hope you feel better soon, I've had a nasty cold for a week now and am just finally starting to feel normal again.

 

[NatoPMT]

skulking back in with my tail between my legs

yesterday was defo an evap.

Oh the shame.

I am disappointed but I have only just started. Jeez, i hope it doesnt take another year, assuming that i even get there.

 

[LucyJ]

Oh hun I'm sorry fingers crossed for next month I'm sure it will happen for you again and wont take a year. Maybe we will be bump buddies

Thanks yogi hope you feel better

 

[Round2]

Oh Nato, really? I'm so disappointed for you. That was one convincing evap. I'm so sorry hun, I know exactly what you're feeling right now.

Chin up my dear, this is NOT going to take another year. Now go get some green tea enjoy these last few months with just Eloise.

 

[Sassy_TTC]

Sorry nats

 

[vickyd]

Bummer Nato... Why was i under the impression that FRERs dont do evaps???

 

[yogi77]

Sorry nato fx for next month, but 9dpo is Also still early!

 

[hoping:)]

Nato I agree with Yogi... 9dpo is still early! I didn't get a positive with Penny until 13dpo so you still have time. If it doesn't work out this month Round is right... it just gives you a little extra time with Eloise.

 

[NatoPMT]

Thanks for the support girls. I feel like a right twonk. I have yet to admit it to the over 35's - i hardly know them and i waltz in all melodramatical with my 1 month to get a bfp banner.

I didnt know frers did evaps of that calibre either. On yesterdays test you can see the white indent, and the colour is down one side of that indent, you know how ics do colour down one side of the line instead of the whole line width? Maybe that should have been the pink flag.

I know 9dpo is early, but i also read that late bfps are more likely to miscarry, so its good to hear Penny was a latey - i really dont feel preggo at all though (and the bfn might be a clue that im not). The pee i used today was dilute but thankfully i am out of frers so will abstain from the 3 frer miniumu per day. and the poas madness can begin again in 4 weeks time. Hold onto your pants

Luce and Mel... yogi needs bump buddies. We are called into action.

Eloise was a good poas buddy, she sat patiently looking at me while i frantically cracked the test open and waved it at the sun. As if Ra was going to help me or somert.

 

[msarkozi]

Nato, we will be joining Yogi! I should be ovulating in a couple weeks, and we will be poas together soon

 

[Allie84]

Oh, Nato, what a bummer!! As I said yesterday, I fell victim to the cruel FRER evap myself. They are especially prone to evaps if you dismantle them to scrutinize (which I regularly did).

Sorry I've been bad at responding to everyone. I feel bad!! I've skimmed and I'm trying to remember....

Sorry about Hero's head, Vicky. Glad she's doing okay now though!

Lucy, Ben sounds so cute curling up to sleep on the chair. There's a photo of this on FB? I'll have to go have a look. Glad he's sleeping well now.

Round, oh, I feel for you being up since 2 am?! I hope you got a better night's sleep last night.

Mel, great to see you! And trying again, yeah!!!!! I take it things are good with Gord?

Hoping, OMG that'd be so exciting if you decided to NTNP again. No pressure LOL.

Crap I can't remember anything else.

AFM I didn't really want to spam this thread with my annoying life but since many of you asked I will update. Alex was apologetic about even suggesting separating for the house. He seemed to get some clarity and said "I'm acting like what I want is this house, but what I want is you and Alistair." He's agreed to move. We found a cool place we both like (actually 3 of them, but today's is getting a second view). We are going to be super duper careful this time and inspect the place with a fine tooth comb. We're going to do therapy to help us communicate. I don't think our problems are major. Our problems are bascailly laziness with the relationship and we've grown apart in the past year. Neither of us put in any effort with the other. We're so focused on Alistair, our jobs/school and my parents, who are a full-time job themselves. I guess I just expected things to go back to 'normal' at someone point on their own, but I realize now relationships don't work that way. A bit of work has to be put in, and I've been putting him last in my life.

 

[NatoPMT]

Vic, you should have called Hero 'Calamity' (my friend has actually called her daughter that) - poor baby ouching her head. Glad shes gradually taking to the new place. She's right to be suspicious. Never know what might be in that cupboard.

Allie - well done you two!! How do you feel about it? Your account is quite factual which is to be expected after a nasty shock like that, it does take time to build back that chemistry. I certainly dont feel you would have been spamming (I am SpamQueen - no one steals my crown) and i certainly dont think its annoying. I am interested in you and your life.

Mel: i will be about a week behind you. You can ease me into the Week of Peeing

 

[Sparkly]

Nato - Balls to the BFE, I hate those buggers!! Keep chugging that green tea and popping the Q10 that combo works a treat for me too You'll be up the duff again in no time.

Allie - I'm so happy to hear that you and Alex are working on it. I'm an old hand at this marriage lark and it really is hard work sometimes and other times not so. My hubby and I have had a difficult few months now and at times it has really got me down, but we are battling on. You'll get through it

AFM - The battle with my weight continues, 20lbs down now and I've re-joined the gym to help things along, I'm one third the way through now. I'm hoping to have shed the rest before the end of the year and then get back to ttc, I will have been on the metformin for the advised 6 months then too. Just 3 more weeks to go before my DS leaves for Uni!!! I'm gonna miss him so much. Glenn and I are going away tonight for a few days, we are desperate for a chill out, work has been full on for months now without a break and we're both knackered all the time! A few lie-ins and lots of nookie coming up