Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[LucyJ]

Vicky hope your resting glad your dr is taking good care of you. Hope the pain's ease of I think staying away from google is a good idea. Thinking of you

Allie I am so impressed you managed to get in some morning mind you it might of helped if I had set my alarm and dont remember steves alarm going off just remember him kissing me good bye as he left for work damn have to jump him when he gets home from work

Amy how are you doing?

 

[pregoinnorge]

hey girls
Yay for morning sex. I'm not a morning person so that never happens.

I called in sick today but I decided to go in and talk to my boss anyway. She was awesome and really understanding. She didn't even bat an eye when I started crying. I imagine she's seen everything. She suggested that I take advantage of the counseling services my company offers. She's actually suggested it before just because she knows how difficult it is for me to be living in Norway, away from my family, my parents recently divorcing, etc, etc. I always kinda blew that off, but maybe it's not such a bad idea.

I have another appointment on Thursday with my normal doctor so that I can at least get a note to be away from work this week if I need to be.

On the plus side, I haven't had anymore spotting today, but yesterday it didn't start up until the evening.

I am just spending the afternoon watching Dexter and trying to stay warm.

 

[LucyJ]

Amy pleased your boss was understanding and supportive. I think counselling is a good idea you've been through a lot and lots of changes. I turned down the counselling I was offered after my first mmc but after my most recent loss I was offered it again an decided to take them up on it have my first session this thursday I'm abit nervous about it but think it will help.

Pleased the spotting has stop and hope it doesnt start up again hopefully it was just old blood that has been got rid of and everything will be alright.

Massive to you. Enjoy dexter snuggle up under a duvet or a blanket to keep warm.

 

[Razcox]

Amy sorry its been so stressful for you but i had bleeding and brown spotting at 6 weeks and 8 weeks both times the scans showed the baby fine and heart beating away. The other week i had a big gush of brown watery discharge it was scary as hell because of how much there was. The EPU wasnt worried though and said as long as its not bright red and i am not in pain it will be fine. A week of brown spotting and it seems to have eased up now and i have normal CM again. So its not all over yet hun xxxx

 

[LucyJ]

Raz

how are you?

 

[Razcox]

I'm good, trying to think positive about the scan in two weeks! I just hate scans

How you doing?

 

[Megg33k]

Glad the spotting stopped, Amy! Your boss sounds great!

Sorry about the rough time, Cesca! You will have your baby soon... just not as soon as you were supposed to! But, s/he's coming!

Raz! You're here!!!

AFM... I don't understand the video thing. Whatever. I'll see if there's any way to fix it.

 

[LucyJ]

I'm good, trying to think positive about the scan in two weeks! I just hate scans

How you doing?

Good luck for your scan I am sure it will be fantastic and will give you some reasurrance. I understand hating scans I think after a loss a scan is always met with worry and fear but once your having it done and you see your little one it will be a happy experience for you.

I'm doing ok we had all our bloods taken last week for further testing so now back to trying again think I ov yesterday or might be today so keeping fingers crossed that we will get lucky this month and all will be alright also hoping we dont have to wait to long for our test results but unfortuanltly with the NHS it can take forever not even sure we will have the results back by the end of the year with is frustrating.

 

[NatoPMT]

I'm less than 10 years older than him! 8 years is okay, right?

Im 10 years older than my husband. I am even badder

just catching up, husband might be home an second for scheduled pre flight bd, in case i disappear, i just wanted to give amy a hug too

Amy, im so sorry you were still spotting, only cos of the upset, not cos i think it means anything more than common early pregnancy spotting - glad its held off today though. If you bd'd when you were with Alex, it might be your cervix which is common. I think you should book another scan in the meantime, a week or more from your last if possible, and if you have to, big up your symptoms to force the app.

YOGI!!! i can actually see a line!! OMFG!!!

Allie, biggest mall ever? that caught my eye more than the peak - sounds good for this month! another OMFG at pic with CB hottie. That beats my Harry from One Direction pic into submission

haha just seen hearty did an "OMFG" too

"Normally I wouldn't teat so early "

pmsl (and excited for teating tomorrow hearty!!)

Cesca, cant wait to hear your news, i know you are scared but after tomorrow, you will have a pic and your mind at rest a bit i hope. I understand the envy too, my best friend who is due in Jan is staying this weekend. i need to keep a lid on that

Luce, hope that egg got caught, you big pouncer.

Vic - sorry to hear that poppet, i hope this is nothing to worry about. Are you ok? How are you feeling?

Hiya Raz, glad you are ok and things are settling down for RazBean. Scans are fucking horrible, i hear you on that

 

[NatoPMT]

Dazed, have you tested (teated) again yet?

 

[Dazed]

Nope, no testing yet. Got a 3pk today for $14 at walgreens so I am armed and ready when I actually do test again. I think I am going to hold out until the 8th, but the urge is starting to get to me.

 

[heart tree]

Amy, I’m glad you talked to your boss. It sounds like you are feeling better. Get the note from your doctor and stay home. You need the rest. Enjoy Dexter. What season are you on? I’m in the middle of Season 4.

Cazza, where are you honey? I hope the scan went well. Thinking about you.

Cesca, good luck tomorrow. Sorry you are feeling so down. But remember, you are half way to having a baby now. You will have this baby and won’t have to feel jealous of anyone anymore.

Vicky, I’m sure the pains are normal. There is a baby growing in there after all! I can only begin to imagine the stress of it though. I can’t believe you didn’t get any response in the PAL section! I never felt comfortable in that section myself.

Allie, good job on the morning sex. I can’t remember the last time we did that. I don’t think we ever did it on a Monday morning before work! Well done!

Hi Raz, good to see you and glad to see your spotting has stopped and things are going well. Can’t wait to hear about your scan.

Nato, good job getting some action in before the flight.

Hi Luce!

Dazed, good job showing some restraint! Can’t wait until the next “teat”

Where’s Yogi? I’m dying to see that line get darker.

AFM, well, I buckled and tested this morning. 2 glaringly white BFNs. One on an IC and one on a FRER. I really am not surprised. I really think we missed the window. I know it is still early, but I would think a FRER would show something at 10dpo. Anyway, I’m not going to test again until Friday when I am 14dpo. If it is another BFN, then I’m going to stop the progesterone. Onward and upward I guess.

 

[Dazed]

Sorry for the BFN Hearty. Thats why I haven't tested again. I think I am slightly getting my hopes up and I am afraid I will be let down.

 

[vickyd]

Hearty im gonna carry on hoping that your bfn turns positive by the end of the week!

Nato you get as much in before he goes!! haha hell be so tired hell sleep through that looong flight!

Im feeling slightly better, cramps seem to have eased up a bit. I wasnt suprised that i didnt get an answer from the PAL forum, i dont know why i still post there to be honest. Most of the girls are quite young and funny enough they all seem to already have kids so i guess ive always found it difficult relating.

 

[Dazed]

Vicky, I know what you mean about the relating when you have kids part. I feel the same way sometimes.

 

[heart tree]

Hey UK girls, someone just posted this in the Pregnancy Test section. Thought all you addicts should know:

frer pregnancy tests are buy one get one free at boots at the minute so you get 4 tests for £10.49

 

[vickyd]

I like how youre feeding their addiction!!!!!!!

 

[LucyJ]

Amanda I'm sorry about the bfn but it could still be to early so I'm going to keep hoping that it turns into a BFP your still in the game.

Good job Nato getting in some before John's flight.

 

[msarkozi]

Vicky - could it be braxton hicks at all?

Hearty - sorry about the BFN, but I am hoping it changes for you

Amy - I am glad you talked to your boss and all is well. I am really hoping for all the best for you!

Hi to all the other girls as well....I don't remember anything much on the last few pages I read, sorry!

 

[vickyd]

Mel i thought of that as well....Who knows? If it keeps up ill be going in to see doc thursday.