Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[heart tree]

Ok you crackheads, I'm going to try and take a nap. My eyes hurt I'm so tired. Have a good day/evening.

And say no to crack!

 

[vickyd]

What i found very impressive is that you actually remember in such detail stuff you did in your degree Nato!!!! Shit, i must have been smoking way to much weed back then cause i dont remember basic chemistry at all!!

 

[NatoPMT]

its what happened between 1989 and last year i cant remember Crack. I mean Vic.

 

[NatoPMT]

Ok you crackheads, I'm going to try and take a nap. My eyes hurt I'm so tired. Have a good day/evening.

And say no to crack!

...and now the come down. the wall has been hit.

have a good kip!

 

[vickyd]

Hearty will be dreaming of hamburgers tonight for sure!

Oh by the way, i didnt get a chance to talk to my landlady tonight...They cancelled the meeting at the last minute....The nursery saga continues!

 

[Jaymes]

My Dr was very reassuring at the appointment. I told her about this baby having the same due date as the one I lost and she was very kind about it and wants me to come back in 2 weeks for another scan. I agreed then went to the front to book my appointment, well... two weeks is the 15th! That's the day we lost Jesse... ARRRG! I guess having a scan that day may help a bit, but honestly we had had a scan the day before we lost Jesse and everything was perfect. One day at a time.

 

[heart tree]

Jaymie, dates can be reminders, but they don't have any hold on the outcome of the present moment. Maybe these dates are occurring as a way for you to get some closure. Just because you lost Jesse doesn't mean you will lose this little one. One day at a time is all you can do. It is seriously the only way my husband and I got through the first trimester. Any time we started talking about the future, good or bad, we would reign it in and remind ourselves to simply focus on today. My mantra was (and still is) "Today is a good day. I'm not bleeding, I'm not cramping, I'm pregnant today. It's a good day." I'm glad you are getting another scan in 2 weeks. That will help tremendously.

Vicky, damn them for cancelling! I hope you can talk to them tomorrow night. No need for this to drag on!

No hamburger dreams. No dreams at all. I barely slept. Just shut my eyes for a while which felt good.

Good point Vic on Nato's memory! My memory is crap. I know it was from all the weed I used to smoke! I have no recollection of what I learned in grad school, never mind college which was almost 20 years ago!

 

[jenny25]

Jaymes I understand I'm having my nt scan the same gestation as I found out Jamie's problem and it the day after paul and I first loss 3 years ago everything will be ok xxx


Well I think I'm dehydrated my head is aching so bad it feels like I've been hit across the head with a bat so need to pump more water into my body

How is everyone love to nato vicky Lucy Amanda Megg gaynor xxx

 

[Sparkly]

Jaymes - yey for a little flicker I understand about your next scan date, but as Amanda said the date does not determine the outcome X

Jen - same to you lol! ^^^ it's so difficult when PAL, we will always find something to worry about

Hearty - There is a definite hamburger on display

Vic - shame about the cancelled meeting, hope the nursery saga gets sorted soon. How are you feeling?

Lucy - I would not need such an excuse to get choccie in my gob....doctor's orders girl

Nato - The eye colour debate is an interesting one. I could have sworn that my DS would have brown eyes like me and most of my family as I had read that the brown eyed gene is dominant, but his eyes are blue. His father and all his family have blue eyes, my father has blue eyes and my grandfather had one brown eye and one blue eye....I feel he was the weak link!!!

AFM - I was just about to update that there was nothing doing with me apart from the drug has given me the trots.....then I just felt a little cramp and found a little red spotting and a tiny clot when I wiped.....fingers crossed that this thing is getting going now as I am desperately wanting to avoid going into hospital tomorrow.....

 

[LucyJ]

Good morning lovely ladies

You guys crack me up

Sparkly I hope it happens quickly for you and you dont have to go into hospital.

Jen its tough when dates coinside but as amanda said it doesnt mean things will go wrong its our past experiences filtering in to the present its hard to shake whats happened before but I am sure things will go perfectly on monday and you are feeling different which is a good thing. Massive And thinking of you. Make sure you are drinking plenty and eat fruit I was told to do that for dehydration.

Vicky sorry they cancelled hope you can rearrange for today and get it sorted.

Amanda hope you managed to get some sleep

 

[Jaymes]

I'm cramping now with bright red spotting! Forget one day at a time. I'm moving on to one moment at a time.... I am crossing everything I have at the moment.

 

[Sparkly]

Hugs for you Jaymie thinking of you X

 

[LucyJ]

Jaymes thinking of you

 

[jenny25]

Hugs darling I'm thinking of you xxx

 

[heart tree]

Oh shit Jaymie. Are there any clots? How bad are the cramps? Is this anything like the bleed with Lexi? Did they see any clots in your uterus during the scan? Try to stay off your feet today. xoxo

 

[hoping:)]

Nato- If Eloise's eye color doesn't change by the time she is 1 we can resume the discussion then. I tried to come up with an explanation but you are right, she would need to have been passed at least 1 brown eyed gene and since neither you or your husband have brown eyes in the family it is a little baffling

Blue- I love that Indigo has blue eyes... very fitting

Hearty- Happy 18 weeks

Vicky- I was just as looney. My midwife laughed at me when I refused meds for my horrible MS because I told her throwing up help me feel better about this pregnancy leading to a healthy baby. Good luck with the nursery discussion

Jenny- you better get to chugging that H2O… I hope the head ache passes soon

Sparkly I hope everything is getting started so you can avoid the hospital

Jaymes- I am crossing everything as well. Thinking of you and your little bean

 

[NatoPMT]

Oh Jaymes, how frightening for you. How are things this afternoon? there seems to be so many parallels to Jesse that it must be hard for you to hope, but i am hoping very hard for this little one

Sparkly, how are you today? Hope everyone is taking good care of you
Sounds like your situation is the same as Bleus, as you must have heterozygous brown eyes, ie a brown eyed gene which shows, with a recessive blue eyed gene. Your husband has homozygous blue eyes, so his homozygous gene with your recessive blue = blue eyes which have popped up in your son. Different coloured eyes is too confusing for me

Hoping, i have marked the date in my diary to recommence eye discussions. <nods>

Hearty - how are the Californian girls today? ooOOOoo i wish they all could be etc etc
Happy 18 weeks!

Vic, hope your nasals are feeling better today

Jen, hows the 3 month bean doing today? i agree with hoping, water might help

Luce wheres our food video hmm hmm

 

[jenny25]

Doing good darling whooshing around when I listen in little monkey lol in finally steering too feel better now

How's family life darling xxx

 

[NatoPMT]

Lovely thanks Jen, Eloise is just perfect. She really is.

that doppler is getting some action then

 

[heart tree]

Nato, can you explain this to me. I have blue eyes. My mother has blue eyes, my father has brown eyes. I don't have any other full blooded siblings. But my brother (who has the same mother as me) has blue eyes and his father, the Spaniard, had very dark brown eyes. How did my mother's blue eyes trump both of her partner's brown ones to give both of her children blue eyes?

Tim has green eyes. His mother has brown and father has blue. One of his brother's has brown and one has hazel. How does that happen? Again, I'm confused how Tim didn't get brown.

You'll probably explain it to me and I still won't understand! If you are sick of giving genetics classes, feel free to ignore the question.

Girls, is this what I have to look forward to? Yesterday I made granola. I put it in the oven. I set the timer. I washed some dishes and saw that the timer was about to go off in a minute. Normal people would have waited. Not me, in that small time frame of a minute, I walked out of the kitchen and got in the shower. I took a nice long shower. Shaved my legs and everything. I realized the granola was still cooking after I was done. Sure enough, the timer was beeping like mad! Pregnancy brain? Good god! What an idiot!