Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[sugarlove]

PS Nato, where the feck is the ambulance? It exploded yesterday

 

[LucyJ]

Haven't tried the smileys ones they've always just seemed so expensive and couldnt afford them if i'm not pregnant this month maybe I'll ask for some for Christmas (now that must be the strangest stocking filler).

Going to try not to worry about it have to trust my body a little and have faith its doing its thing. Maybe I'll do one in a weeks time when I no I wont be ov and see what happens.

Thanks for the advice what would I do without you girls.

After my first lost I blamed a lot of things as we got to our 12 week scan but found out our little apple pip had died at 10 weeks I went over everything I did at 10 weeks was picking up my niece to blame. I was rushing around like a crazy women helping my brother organising a her party was it that so many things in the end steve made me go to see my dr and ask her she was like NO a 1000 times no its nothing you did tha caused this to happen its very very sad but not your fault and despite my family and friends telling me that it was reassuring hearing it from a professional. I think you look for reasons and for answers that sometimes just dont exist it took me a while to accept that I will never know why.

 

[MinnieMone]

ha ha that made me laugh out loud too.... and who were those strangers in the rovers trying to get seen by the worst acting doctor in the world (we're shouting at the screen 'fook off extras').... oooh so sunitta looks gone, and molly the schllllaaagggg might be too.... and sorry what was it with taking fizz into the factory as a makeshift theatre, why not try and leave her for the ambulance (eh? ambulances? are there any in weatherfield).

and not forgetting THE SNAPE has a dead woman with a hammer in the back of her head in his front room.... why doesn't he go put her under some bricks.

Sorry for anyone who doesn't watch corrie, but it's actually taking my mind off TTC for the first time in over a year! it was so bad tonight it was fantastic.

Lucy - I know the smiley's are expensive, I did do a test one month when i used a cheaper brand and smiley's just to see which would turn first and the smiley face came up same time as the line went darker than the control line. So now what I do is use the cheaper ones from day 10 onwards then when i think i'm going to ov i try the smiley's just for the 2 days over 13/14, end up just using 2 or 3 of them a month so a box lasts a couple of months. I think you're right though, you need to trust that your body will regulate itself on its own given a bit of time.

 

[dawny690]

Who do we think dies? I know there is a funeral next week and the flowers say daddy? xxxx

 

[sugarlove]

Right, have read back!

Nato and Jenny, the NHS can kiss my ass!
Nato, can you not at least be referred to a FS on the NHS, even if you can't do IVF with them? I reckon Mr T sounds fab. If I lived in London, I would be booking an appt with him right now! I've booked myself on an IVF open day in January in Sheffield to find out more. If it comes down to it (and I really hope it doesn't), we can be IVF buddies!
My test results won't be ready till tomorrow now. Foockin NHS promised me today!

Lucy, I've just remembered that OPK are unreliable after a mc like Nato has said. MY CBFM says not to use for a few cycles after a mc as there may still be pg hormones knocking around which can skew the results. I would go by your EWCM if you can this month hun!

Raz, I'm confused. I thought you had a scan today or have I got that wrong!
x

 

[dawny690]

I think he will do or has Mone xxxx

 

[LucyJ]

ha ha that made me laugh out loud too.... and who were those strangers in the rovers trying to get seen by the worst acting doctor in the world (we're shouting at the screen 'fook off extras').... oooh so sunitta looks gone, and molly the schllllaaagggg might be too.... and sorry what was it with taking fizz into the factory as a makeshift theatre, why not try and leave her for the ambulance (eh? ambulances? are there any in weatherfield).

and not forgetting THE SNAPE has a dead woman with a hammer in the back of her head in his front room.... why doesn't he go put her under some bricks.

and what about the police and firebrigade surley they should be there.

 

[NatoPMT]

in the interim, I have been doing dancing in my kitchen.

Mone, Lucy and Sugar, there has been a major RTA on the M62, werent you listening. That explains why there are no emergency services in the metrpolitan borough of great manchester. You are so disbelieving.

If that dr came near me, id give him a bacon slice (a karate move i personally devised)

4 die, 2 get married.

Charlotte already has a sledgehammer in the head. Ashleys a goner too i reckons. Nick?
Baddy ex husband?

i just dont know what to think

Sugar, i have to phone the PCT to find out if they will refer me, apparently they keep changing the rules but Dr Kuhn thought not.

 

[NatoPMT]

"No, I'm sorry doctor, my son's trapped in there"

"Then he's beyond help right now"

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and that coming from the man who sacked her.

That said, Id sack her for her insessant blinky fluttery thing she tries to do, like a 55 year old woman trying to look girlish.

Im gettng bitchy now.

 

[heart tree]

Work is getting in my way today! No time to type but have been reading and wanted to send a collective hug to everyone.

Megg, 4 is going to be the lucky number. I'm going to get a sticky baby on my 4th pregnancy and you are getting a baby from your 4 eggs.

Damn it!

 

[LucyJ]

I think Molly is a gonna as well!!

Right girls I'm off to bed going to jump my hubby just in case I havnt ovulated yet

 

[yogi77]

Hi Ladies, just catching up after work...

Amy how are you doing, I am thinking about you

Mone good to see you again...sounded like you had a really nice time at your parents'!

Megg I'm so sorry that you are going through a hard time right now...please don't give up hope though! BIG HUG.

Nato good luck with the maverick Mr. T...he sounds decent!! I'm going to check out the website...

I am torn about posting an updated FRER today amidst the bad news and feelings...but at the same time I really want to share this with you ladies because you helped me through everything and I can't imagine NOT sharing all of this with you...so I'm sorry if I upset anyone with updated pictures of my BFP...I really hope I don't upset anyone but it's a happy time for me. Just tell me if you want me to stop and f-off. We all love staring at lines on sticks though so here goes...

(...having a lot more symtpoms last night and today too...boobs tingling and getting sore and had pretty bad cramping last night)

Today's FRER (11dpo):

 

[heart tree]

Yogi we can't control when we have good and bad days. We're all going to have them on different days. I'm glad you shared. Those are amazing lines for 11 dpo! Congrats honey!

 

[Megg33k]

Well, I definitely don't need to tweak that one, April! CONGRATS!!! I'll move you up to the preggos on page 1!

Nato - Your story really did help. Thank you! I'm sorry you've gone as far as you can with NHS, but 60% vs 30% is much better! So, do what you need to do!

Amanda - I can't help but like the idea of 4 being our magic number. 4th time lucky for you, 4 eggs for me...

Let me first say that "OW, OW, FUCKITY OW!" OMG!!! I was in tears just from trying to pee before I went to sleep. It felt like someone had jabbed a giant fucking needle through my vagina and ovaries multiple times! Oh wait! Seriously, a D&C is NOTHING compared to this shit. I'm going going to sugar coat it... because it fucking sucked. I was fine when I left the hospital, but I hadn't tried to bear down to take a piss yet either. Whoa! So, I kind of screamed my way through it and then took 2 extra strength Tylenol (as instructed) and went to sleep.

After sleeping and sleeping and sleeping... I feel a bit better. As long as the fertilization report is good, then I am pretty content... I suppose. Am I disappointed? YES! Is it really all over because of this? Not yet!

Why did it happen? He said he had trouble getting to some of the smaller ones. Okay, fine. But, 4 vs 20? So, I don't know what happened, because I don't think his explanation explains it.

Here's what I would like to see happen... I would like to see 3 of the 4 work out well. And, then I would like to put them all back on Day 5 (but probably will be forced to do Day 3, at a guess). I would like to have 2 stick and become twins... and then I would like to never do this again. That's what I would like.

 

[NatoPMT]

I think Molly is a gonna as well!!

yes, of course! then kevin will get al territorial about the baby or somert, and the whole sorry mess will come pouring out

Yogi, Im so proud of you!!!!

Megg, are you cut down there? erk, im cringing for you - thats the only reason i could think of for wee hurting. Pouring water on cut fanjitas is supposed to stop wee hurting, but cant imagine thats relevant advice

Did you say you get fertilization news tomorrow? If so, glad its so quick and they are dividing overnight. I read a 75% rate is expected, im sending them mental divide messages

 

[Allie84]

Megg, 75% is a great rate so I am still really, really hopeful and excited for you! I'm dissaponited on your behalf though about the number, and yeah, his explanation leaves much to be desired. Oh, andOUCH...I really feel for the amount of pain you're enduring. My gosh it sounds awful. I think twins at the end of this sounds wonderful, and 4 being your lucky number (along with Hearty's)

OMG Yogi, CONGRATS!! That is a wonderful BFP for 11dpo. Don't feel bad AT ALL for posting your good news....we all want to share in that with you. I'm so happy and excited for you.

 

[Sparkly]

Congrats April, that's a BFP alright!! I hope you don't mind me saying, that as much as I loved to see it, it made me I've had a shite day though, I'm so happy for you chick.

Amy how are you doing honey?

Megg 4 is my lucky number, my birthday is 4th/4th my son's is 4th, i hope it's lucky for you too. I'm sorry your in pain hon 4 hugs for each of the quad geekbuds xxxx

 

[yogi77]

Thank you ladies!!! I love that I can share this with all of you and want to thank you so much for helping me through everything...I really hope this is a healthy pregnancy and sticky bub!!

 

[yogi77]

Congrats April, that's a BFP alright!! I hope you don't mind me saying, that as much as I loved to see it, it made me I've had a shite day though, I'm so happy for you chick.

I'm so sorry Sparkly That's why I feel so torn about it. I know exactly how you feel because I went through it too.

 

[Sparkly]

Congrats April, that's a BFP alright!! I hope you don't mind me saying, that as much as I loved to see it, it made me I've had a shite day though, I'm so happy for you chick.

I'm so sorry Sparkly That's why I feel so torn about it. I know exactly how you feel because I went through it too.

I really mean it honey, I'm so happy for you, I love seeing the girls getting their BFP's, some days are just harder than others as you know. I wish you a H&H 9 months chick xx