Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[heart tree]

He is so amazing a David isn't he? I didn't know who he was before this show and I really thought he was gay. But he is so perfect as Dexter too! I love Keith. That's all I'll say about that.

Billy is a freak for sure.

How's your bod? Are you still in pain? Did Kristian stay up with you or is he sleeping?

 

[pregoinnorge]

There's still a little pain. My thighs feel numb and cold which is a weird sensation. Crazy how the cramps were almost immediately alleviated after the majority was passed. I just hope it all passes on it's own. When should I go to the doctor again?

Kristian fell asleep a few hours ago, but I don't blame him. I hopped on bnb almost immediately. I sure love that man- he knows all the right things to say. He's wonderful and I'm lucky to have him.

 

[heart tree]

You know, I found that I loved Tim even more after each of my losses. We have such an amazing bond now. I think things like this test a marriage. Some thrive and some don't. It sounds like yours will thrive. What a wonderful realization that he has your back during this.

Since I've never had a natural mc I don't know when you should go back to the doctor. It seems to me that you should definitely go in a few weeks to make sure you passed all the tissue. And if you find yourself in pain for several days or if the bleeding continues to be very heavy then you should go immediately. I bet some other ladies have better advice about this than me.

My first one started to bleed out on it's own. God I remember the contractions. It was awful. I was so happy when they did the d&c because like you said, the pain was just gone. My second and third never bled. We could just see on a scan they weren't viable so I had D&Cs to terminate. For all of mine I went for a scan 3 weeks later.

 

[Allie84]

So glad you have Kristian, Amy, and the pain is subsiding. It sounds like 6 Feet Under is an addicting show. If I were you I'd call the doc in the morning and see what they say. I imagine they'll want to see you soon.

Mel, a yeast infection would make sense as you're on antibiotics and that causes them. I've had 2...both times burning, itching, and tender. A bit of white discharge.

 

[msarkozi]

Amy, I would call in the morning as well. I seen the dr after a few days, but I was in the process of having my mc when I went to emergency at the hospital. I never got cramps until after, so I am glad yours are going away already.

Allie, I had read that shortly after about the antibiotics. I am going to phone in the morning and ask if I can stop taking them. I have itching, and I don't like it!

 

[Allie84]

Mel, good idea. It really is one thing after another with your bod these days, crikey.

Amy, still thinking of you.

Hearty, quick question regarding progesterone cream. I think I'll be 3dpo tomorrow and am going to pick some up. Which is the brand you recommend? And, do you think it's safe to take even if my progesterone is normal? Like, can it hurt? I ask because my dr. doesn't think I need anything even with my less than stellar levels, but he also doesn't think soy works, so......

 

[heart tree]

Everyone is up so late tonight!! Except for Vicky who I see in here now. It's morning for her.

Amy is gone. I hope you are sleeping now sweet woman.

Mel bow is your leg feeling? Do you think it is safe to go off the antibiotics yet? Your poor body!

 

[heart tree]

Allie I think you will be 3 dpo tomorrow too. I use the Emerita Pro-gest brand. I can get it at health food stores. If you can't find that brand make sure to get a bio-identical kind. It is safe to use. The amount is minimal nmh doctor didn't believe in it either but I definitely noticed a difference. I used 1/4 teaspoon in the morning and one at night. I read that you should rotate your body parts where you rub it in. I read that you should put it on the same spot only once every 4 days because if you keep rubbing it into the same place it can't absorb as well. So I would do bottom of legs/arms on day 1, top of legs/back day 2, bum/tummy day 3 and chest/sides of torso day 4 and then repeat.

 

[heart tree]

Here is the cream https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000IMQE5U?ie=UTF8&force-full-site=1

 

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I'm off to bed. Goodnight!

 

[vickyd]

Just caught up...

Amy sooo sorry babes....I think you are handling both the physical and emotional pain very well, hang on to Kristjan and youll both come out stronger on the other side....

Mel if your discharge is thick white and kinda smelly then its a yeast infection. The antibiotics may cause this but also pregnancy is known to bring on these infections.
You should eat loads of probiotics while on antibiotics, and for some instant relief apply some yogurt on your fanjita!!!

 

[cazza22]

Amy I'm so sorry huny, I have no words babes I really I don't I just want to send massive hugs to u xxxxx

 

[jenny25]

amy im so sorry sweetie

im going to see if i can see the gp today too sort this mess out x

 

[Megg33k]

Oh, Amy... I'm SOOOOO sorry, babe! I know you felt this was coming all along. But, I hoped you'd be wrong! I don't really have the words. I just want you to know that I'm thinking of you!

 

[NatoPMT]

Oh Amy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm so glad you have your lovely boy there with you, I sometimes wonder if our bodies know what we can and cant handle, and waited until you have him there before it put you through this. If you are repressing your feelings, its what you need at this time to help you through this. When i had my mc, the intense physical pain was an almost welcome distraction, it allowed me to focus on that.

I hope you get some rest, and can Kristian take a few days off to stay with you? Thinking of you x

Mel, yeast infections are horrible, i had one when i was pregnant and my tongue went white too. Dont eat any sugar at all as that feeds the yeast.

 

[NatoPMT]

wtf, i just checked and i have LOADS of ewcm???

Not seen that in the whole year I've been checking, and it happens when John is away. Where's that come from?? I havent even been taking my cough medicine or EPO.

 

[prgirl_cesca]

Amy I'm so gutted for you, how horrible to go from such great news to tragedy in one day. Get yourself to the doctors in a few days to check all the tissue has gone.

Mel - I get yeast infections all the time, so often I rarely use meds for them because I'm used to them! If you've got thick white discharge then it's probably it. I never find mine smell particularly, maybe a sweet smell if anything.

Nato - Whoop for EWCM,although boo you can't utilize it!

I literally dreamt ALL night I was shagging Patrick Bateman. Over and over again in different places. Without dying at the end!! Didn't really want to wake up this morning! haha!

 

[jenny25]

girls can you read this for me and tell me if it sounds ok im sending it to the pct and the clinic where we were supposed to be treated

Dear ......

Hi I wonder if you can help me in the criteria and guidelines for fertility treatment in barking and dagenham
My partner and i have been reffered for treatment after our recent loss at 14 weeks through a genetic problem with his bladder , this is not our first we have had 3 together in the last 18 months and i had one in a previous relationship my losses have been from 6 weeks 9 weeks 14+3 and 24+3. At my last loss my consultant Dr C Otigbah who was my fetal medicine consultant highly recommended that we seek fertility treatment as we have been trying for over 2 years now so she had written to my consultant Dr Thompson and my gp DR Grawall advising we should be referred . We both are living in the Dagenham area and both have GP's in Barking and Dagenham area , When my partner and i went too see my gp on the news of our loss we sat and discussed our options and fertility treatment we said to DR Grawall that my partner would be transferring from his practice in halbutt street dagenham to ours so we could be seen by the same gp cause of all our losses and for future treatment together as a couple and if and when we get pregnant again. Now we got a date for the fertility treatment which was for january so i had to call the choose and book service to confirm the appointment and give them my details and my partners details on doing this their seems to be a problem cause my partner changed gp's but still in the dagenham area he hasnt come from any other area as i have stated the woman on the phone says its the new criteria to be registered with your gp for a year , surely this cant be right as it doesnt change what we have gone through and how long we have been trying i spoke to pct in barking and cause he lives in dagenham and he hasnt come from and outside area like redbridge area it shouldnt be a problem so basically we are stuck in limbo with our appointment cause the woman on choose and book cancelled it .
i fit the criteria in every other way 4 losses one 6 year old from previous relationship i have pcos and antiphospholipid syndrome

i hope you can help

Jennifer Heirs

 

[vickyd]

Nato obviously you would get EWCM when Johns outa town....Murphys law!
What did you change in your diet this month? Maybe its all the chocolate bunnies????

 

[pip101]

sorry to gatecrash ladies,I read these posts and I couldnt leave.....
Amy, so so so sorry,life can be so f~*@#n cruel sometimes and it is so not fair!
big hugs!
pip