Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[Allie84]

Thanks girls! I guess I'm overreacting about my temp drop. If it doesn't go up again tomorrow I will be upset. I was tossing and turning just roasting last night so maybe my bad night's sleep dropped my temp.

Lucy, Do you think there's any chance it may be implantation bleeding or is it too much for that? I agree with the other girls that your cycles may be strange due to the mc still. I know mine have never been the same since! Not that that's promising, but yeah. Also, what VGibs said really stuck with me about being an angel mummy having a right to greive and feel this way. I bet that good cry was really good for you.

Hearty, I'm off to look at your charts now for some hope! Sorry about the ants, yuck!

 

[sugarlove]

I forgot Hearty! Sorry my love and sorry that you are having a shit day. Urgh to the ants. Almost as bad as my mice!
x

 

[NatoPMT]

The prolactin range stated on my tests are 102-496, but i have read other ranges as normal being 30-600 - i wish theyd make their minds up, either way you are defo in the normal range. Cos you are at the bottom of the range on my NHS results, i would bring it up with the FS again just to make sure you get your money's worth from them.

 

[jenny25]

well i checked ff and it says 7th september hun how cool

well paul isnt going to asda he will be in after 8 so i will be jumping on the band wagon then again early morning pmsl hahaha yeee haaaaa xxx

 

[dawny690]

well i checked ff and it says 7th september hun how cool

well paul isnt going to asda he will be in after 8 so i will be jumping on the band wagon then again early morning pmsl hahaha yeee haaaaa xxx

you go girlie I'm going to jump hubby again later and then tomorrow after work wow we are due literally 4 days apart xxxx

 

[yogi77]

Hi Ladies,

Jenny woo hoo for the positive OPK go get some in!! You too Dawny!!

LOL at Nato adding random strangers to FB!! Who did you think I was???

Allie a temp drop right now is totally normal, don't worry about it! I have a temp drop every cycle at around 6 or 7 dpo and I think I read somewhere that it is expected to be like that, pregnant or not! You still have lot's of time!

Sugar I don't know anything about those numbers but if the other girls say they're good then I'm sure they're all good!

ewww Hearty sorry about the ant infestation!!

Lucy so sorry you're feeling down hunny The spotting might not be AF, don't lose hope yet...

DH and I are both home sick today...he is such a big baby when he is sick so I am taking care of him, even though I feel like crap too...grrrrr...I really DO NOT need to get sick right now but I feel like it's coming now...

 

[LucyJ]

Thanks girls I feel bit better now got a masisve hug from steve when he got home which always makes me feel better. I think because my cycles went back to normal straight away after my two previous mc's it scared me that this one was so different but your right it could just be an odd one.

Allie it just seems to much to be implantation and the cramping is so so bad its definitely not the way I want to start a pregnancy to be honest. The bleeding is just very light spotting now very odd hopefully its just a blip and next cycles will be normal no scratch that next cycle will lead to a BFP.

Thanks Vgibs your so right I did cry on the bus but only a little just had tears rolling down my cheeks couldnt stop them but didnt want to completely brake down did when I got home. Your right I need to allow myself to feel I am a mummy of angels and that is so damn sad sometimes My mum's had a rough day she's not going to see my brothers little girl before christmas now (we dont have her for chirstmas this year) thats made her sad and it made her sad thinking she should have another little grandchild this year so she had a bit of a cry (my mums not a big cryer) I think I forget the impact our losses have on those around us as well. I'll be stronger tomorrow but for today I'm going to grieve for my angel babies.

Thanks for all your support. Didnt take it all in that I read but here goes sorry to hearty that your have a bad day ants what a nightmare hope tomorrow is better for us both, go for it Jenny good luck, yay to sugar and your test results thats good news, Allie I'm hoping its an implantation dip keeping everything crossed for you and last a dark chocolate lindt Nato sounds good to me Sorry if I missed anyone.

 

[heart tree]

Jenny, I hope you catch that egg girly!

Lucy, god, I can't tell you how many days/moments I've had like that. Some days it is just impossible to keep it together. Especially when your body is playing tricks on you. I'm glad you got a big hug from Steve. I know you don't want to start a pregnancy with bleeding like this, but it isn't abnormal at all. I'm still going to hold onto hope that you have a sticky bean in there if that's ok with you? I'm sending you 1,000 hugs

Dawny, I'm not sure you've caught your surge yet from what I could see. It looks like it is coming soon though. You should be BD'ing just in case.

Nato, I was having phantom symptoms yesterday until I remembered I was only on CD 4! Probably too early to test yet, don't you think?

My day seems to be getting better. I hate killing things, even ants. Hopefully they got the message and won't be there tonight.

 

[LucyJ]

Lucy, god, I can't tell you how many days/moments I've had like that. Some days it is just impossible to keep it together. Especially when your body is playing tricks on you. I'm glad you got a big hug from Steve. I know you don't want to start a pregnancy with bleeding like this, but it isn't abnormal at all. I'm still going to hold onto hope that you have a sticky bean in there if that's ok with you? I'm sending you 1,000 hugs

Yeah that is ok thank you for holding onto hope for me and for all the

Pleased your day is going better hope it continues that way

 

[sugarlove]

Will do Nato thanks
will check with him about the LH and FSH if I can ever afford to see him again!

This means that I officially meet the criteria for egg sharing if I decide to go for it! They wanted my FSH at under 8. Could mean a cycle of IVF for a grand rather than closer to 4,000 (why won't my pound sign work on my laptop!)

I also looked into how the sharing worked. If it's an uneven number, I would have to give the extra to the recipient.

 

[vickyd]

damn i just wrote a long post and got thrown off the site grrrr!!!!

Hearty i hate ant season, ours is in June and its a bloody nightmare. I have this trick where i make a trail of pepper which they follow out to the balcony. If that doesnt work i stomp around like a madwoman!

Luce i hope that you are preggo but if youre not dont worry about the short cycle. i had three really short ones followed by a really long one right after my D&C. I think my first regular cycle was in May just one month before i got pregnant.

 

[MinnieMone]

hi ladies...

haven't had a chance to catch up as have been out most of the day, but wanted to ask the experts a quick questions.

I am day 10 from the start of my period (proper flow) and have got a positive smiley on an OPK, I have never got a positive that early (it's always day 13/14). Does this mean that the egg probably won't be mature enough? I always get ovulation cramps as well, and nothing this month, the only reason why I tested this early is that i got some ewcm this morning, which I never get either. All very odd, but it is first cycle since mc so that's probably why it's all over the shop.

does early ovulation mean the chances of BFP are reduced?

thanks lovelies, will go back now and catch up. x

 

[msarkozi]

Hearty, you are asking the wrong person......it is never too early to test for a POAS addict!!!

 

[vickyd]

Mone im not an expert but ive never heard of early ovulation being a problem. Everything ive read points to problems associated with very late ovulation.

 

[jenny25]

im sitting waiting upstairs for paul he has been in since just before 8 and i go down and he is on the laptop playing bloody championship manager im raggin

 

[Allie84]

Mone, I'm not sure. But you might not even ov until CD12 even with your positive OPK today. And I think CD12 is okay!

Oh no, Vicky, I hate when my posts get deleted like that.

Yogi, sorry you and hubby are getting sick. Somehow when OHs get 'man-flu' it's always worse. I hope you both feel better soon!

Jenny, I was a champ manager widow for a few years. Luckily he has no time to play it now he's a student as well. I'm so evil for being happy about that.

 

[jenny25]

lol i can actually feel myself ov out my left side the now and i wanna watch crime watch lol x

 

[LucyJ]

Thanks I feel abit calmer about things now I've spoken to you girls. Thanks for sharing you experience Vicky its reassuring.

Mone I think thats fine and as I understand it that means you should ov in the next 24-36 hours so that would be about cd11/12 which is good I think.

Oh sorry jenny I hate it when my hubby does that I would go downstairs shut the top of his laptop down and jump him or go down stairs naked that should get his mind of the game

 

[vickyd]

Jenny dont go down and start nagging....It will totally kill the mood! Just go down there and seduce him!

 

[NatoPMT]

Hearty, CD4 would be for me the same as 6dbo, which i threatened to test on last week. So in my head, i think thats a perfectly acceptable day to start testing

Mone - FF seems to define early ovulation as CD12 or before, but i dont think that would be classed as medically early, and i cant find any reason why that would be an issue, go for it I say

Yeay and double yeay at sugar. Brilliant news. Cheap ivf not in a backstreet - whats not to like. I hate that saying, just for the record, so i dont know why i said it. Thats a huge saving. You are gonna beat me to the bfp. I have my eye on you.

haha at Mel popping up when the opportunity to goad someone into early testing presents itself

Yogi, i dont even know how she appeared for me to think she was you. I dont even know why i thought she was you

good advice to jen, Vic.

Glad you are a bit calmer Luce. We dont want any bus crying. I did that once in a post break up phase and a homeless person put his arm round me. I was really going for it.

i must go to bed. goodnight bumpity bumpers