swood9
Mom of one!
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Hi all, I haven't posted here in a while but I am at a bit of a loss. About a month ago, dh and I took 16 month old ds to the childrens museum. We spend a lot of time there. Another baby hit ds. Didn't hurt him by any means, but it upset him none the less. Since that day, ds hits. He does it for fun and to be playful sometimes, but mostly he will do it out of frustration or to try and get what he wants. Sometimes he hurts us! He will hit Dh's glasses off of his face, or wack us with toys, whatever. He will also bite down on his pacifier really hard when he is frustrated, like he is girtting his teeth. Of course this intensifies when he is tired or over tired, and we understand that. We try telling him no but it just turns into a game/power struggle and has the opposite affect. We have also tried the "crying, act hurt" deal with minimal success. With me he feels badly and he walks away from me, but DH's fake cry is so silly that he just laughs, lol. Ignoring doesn't work either.
Anyway, please let me know what success you have had with hitting issues. He doesn't fully understand the concept of "hurting" us, and I hope that we don't jsut have to wait it out. I have to figure out a way to stop giving this more power
Anyway, please let me know what success you have had with hitting issues. He doesn't fully understand the concept of "hurting" us, and I hope that we don't jsut have to wait it out. I have to figure out a way to stop giving this more power