By routine I mean did you do the same thing each night like take them to bed with you in the first few weeks etc? When my daughter was first born, I was so tired and out of it (pnd) I went to bed around 8pm and dh kept her downstairs so I could sleep for a solid amount of time. I'm not p,ann ing on having pnd this time (famous last words!) I'm already on meds from last time so I'm hoping it bypasses me and were going to be co sleeping (bedside cot) so I was planning on taking little man up with me? I'm probably just fooling myself in thinking I can be so organised in the first few weeks What do/did you do?