Aidan's Mummy
Mummy to Aidan and Oliver
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Ever since Aidan has been born my family have constanlty been critising what i do. All i get is "oh, no you don't do it like that" "Watch his head" (i'm aware of his head), "What are you doing to that poor baby"
And the thing that really upsets me " Don't pick him up, he needs to learn to settle on his own" When people say that i just want to cry. He is layed in his moses basket wimpering because he likes cuddles when he falls asleep and i get told to leave him. It's like i'm not the parent and they have taken over. I just feel so pushed out and i havn't got any confidence with him at all
And when he is crying and i've tryed everything and he still won't settle i just don't know what to do. And i just get told well something must be wrong. Someone actually said to me "What have you done to him. Why is he crying that that" I mean they were bascially accusing me of harming my own baby. I would never hurt him how could they think that
And the thing that really upsets me " Don't pick him up, he needs to learn to settle on his own" When people say that i just want to cry. He is layed in his moses basket wimpering because he likes cuddles when he falls asleep and i get told to leave him. It's like i'm not the parent and they have taken over. I just feel so pushed out and i havn't got any confidence with him at all
And when he is crying and i've tryed everything and he still won't settle i just don't know what to do. And i just get told well something must be wrong. Someone actually said to me "What have you done to him. Why is he crying that that" I mean they were bascially accusing me of harming my own baby. I would never hurt him how could they think that