Do you tell OH when you test?

[Timetotry]

I don't.
I just snuck a bunch of used tests into the garbage when he wasn't home lol. I don't want to get his hopes up and I don't want to tell him when they are negative.
Do you hide your testing?

 

[MrsMcCurdy]

Sometimes, I don't want to get his hopes crushed when I know they're pretty high.

 

[Mrs HM]

I keep it to myself but only because I know he'll moan at me for wasting tests! He knows that it could take a while so he's not disappointed with negatives, but I think I'll only let him know I've tested when we get a bfp!

 

[TTC First]

I keep it to myself too. I look forward to surprising him when I get the bfp.

 

[2moms2be]

I keep it to myself, too. DW wants this as much (if not more) as I do, so I don't want to disappoint her with BFN after BFN. So I'll tell her when it's good news

 

[superfrizbee]

I never told DH. Even when I got a really faint BFP I didn't tell him because I wasnt 100% sure. Two days later I tested again and there it was, so then I told. In fact I showed him the pregnancy test but it was a bit of an anti climax because he didn't know what two lines meant!

 

[wildworld]

I don't anymore - I wouldn't want both of us to be upset when it can just be me. There's no point. I did in my previous cycles, and it upset us both when the tests came back negative (last cycle we were thrilled as we had a faint bfp which turned into a chemical)

If I see a faint line on a test now, I'll tell him but I don't tell him when I'm about to do a test x

 

[AuntieKate]

He knows when I'm testing the next morning but normally sleeps through it. I don't talk about it much with him though because I feel as though we were both burnt with our mc in May. It's definitely not as sweet the second time around.