My son only takes one nap a day now, and because he is at daycare its at 10:30 to 12. I think this is ruining my day,as he seems to conk out again around 5 or 6, and then he wont go to bed til 9 or 9:30, I think he needs to nap later at like 11:30 or 12 til 1:30 ish. Then he wont be tired at 5 o'clock and I can aim for 8 pm bedtime. He is not an early sleeper and wont go down at 7 but he can go down at 8 but not if he keeps nodding off at 5 or 6 o clock. I dont know how to approach the babysitter about this or even if i can, because they all sleep at the same time i think, and then eat luch at 1, I dont want my son to eat all alone and feel left out that the other kids are playing while he must go to sleep. what should i do?