I'm the opposite of you actually
I don't see the point in not knowing, for me here are the reasons:
- Helps narrow down name choices and focus more.
- Helps bonding to be able to give her/him a definite name or call him "he is active" or "She is active"
- Get to prepare more - getting clothes (I do like gender equal clothes but I would also like some blue outfits or pink outfits) and would avoid the awkward stranger that calls your daughter "HE" etc.
- Gender reveal parties are getting popular, could make the baby shower more exciting
- the argument of wanting a surprise is invalid for me, it's not like your giving birth to a chicken, there are 2 choices.
- I think it would be kind of like a reward, aw I made it through the most sick stage and now I can know if it's a boy or girl!
- It can help you budget if it's your 2nd or 3rd child etc, if your first is a girl you can recycle and save money if it's another girl, if it's a boy you know to put away a bit extra.
- This will sound weird but there isn't many gender equal clothes in the market, my friend did a "yellow" bump where she didn't find out and she got 3, yes 3, of the same baby grow, and loads of duplicate gifts which to be honest ( I was one of the duplicates) it was quite embarrassing for the guests because one girl got her just a pair of timmy dummies while their other friend got her the same pack as well as the same baby grow i got her and another 3 gifts.
- I don't see the point in me being all "oh I can't wait to find out" when I can find out.. what's the point in putting myself through the feeling of impatience when it isn't needed.