Does it get easier? The WTT game?

[Lirpa11]

Just wondering if the WTT gets easier?

Right now, and for the past couple of months, it seems so hard and frustrating and annoying and I don't know how I will wait!!!

I have been slightly broody for awhile, until august I put my foot down and came off the pill and told DH to sort protection as I was ready,and if wasn't then he could protect for awhile. I then said I wanted a TTC date. We have agreed on June 2014 (I know it's not far but it seems so far away!!!) during a trip to USA. I want to try now, but if don't want to push him so I agreed. Before this conversation, he always said one day, when were stable etc etc.

Since then, a lady at work announced her pregnancy, his cousin announced their pregnancy, one friend just had a baby, another friend is now pregnant, and now a closer friend just said she is 5weeks along. I smile, but I just want to cry! What is wrong with me. I know I should keep busy, but it's so hard to keep busy when that's what I want to be busy with.

And each time the baby topic comes up with a birth or pregnancy announcement we get asked the dreaded, when are you two getting started? I hate that question (although I often ask it I must admit). I want to say now or, we're already in the oven...

I feel like we're going to be left behind. Young or not, I still feel that way

Does it get easier or harder? I wish I could switch these feelings off for awhile.

 

[MoldyVoldy]

sorry you're feeling this way

i think it's different for everyone.

personally, i can very much relate to how you're feeling. i feel like that every day. for me, wtt hasn't gotten easier. and i don't feel like it will get easier on me until i'm ttc or am pregnant.

hang in there...one day it WILL be our turn

 

[spicyorange]

i have gone up and down i fond some days (like baby announcements) harder and otehrs easier rather than progressivly easier/harder - on one hand as time goes by your wait has been longer so its worse - on the otehr you ar closer to ttc so its better...? i know htats not really an answer but as moldyvouldy says our time will come - for now we stick together and support each otehr - we will get there in the end..