MummyMummy
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i don't have anything to do with partners mum and he knows better than to
what happened was when we were going to buy a house and wanted to save money he explained he wanted to moveout of the house she shared with his bro and would find somebody else to move in that wasn't good enough so she stopped paying the over draft he had got out for his brother on the promise his mum would pay him back (after a year all she had done was just pay the £20 interest eachmonth... not attemptto pay itback) and we were gonna be leftpaying £20 a month if wedidn't pay off the £1,200 and odd o/d. to which my grandad gave usthe money for (which of course meant the house deposit from him wasn't as much) then we had a sky bill thru (when we had just moved into rented accomodation... we gave up with buying)telling us we owed £100 n odd which turned out washers cause she hadn't paid/cancelled and it was in mr. mans name. mr.man gave me impression she said she'd get it sorted straight away. turned out she was only gonna pay £8 amonth! i was NOT gonna spend my entire pregnancy worrying about her paying and with her track record of paying stuff back and according to partner she said she couldn't afford anymore (did i mention she has a suped up 08 ford focus and at the time was having her restaurant redone etc etc but she didn't have an extra £100 and odd to pay her bill) so once again we paid it off. this same 'mother' allowed her partner to kick my mr.man out on his 21st bday and the same mother who told peopleabout our pregnancy knowing my mr.man wanted to tell people in his own time.
i don't want her around me or the babies or knowing about our life yet mr. man keeps saying he 'has totell her' when i give birth becuase 'it's his mum'. am i a horrid horrid person for telling him idon't want him to tell her anything?
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what happened was when we were going to buy a house and wanted to save money he explained he wanted to moveout of the house she shared with his bro and would find somebody else to move in that wasn't good enough so she stopped paying the over draft he had got out for his brother on the promise his mum would pay him back (after a year all she had done was just pay the £20 interest eachmonth... not attemptto pay itback) and we were gonna be leftpaying £20 a month if wedidn't pay off the £1,200 and odd o/d. to which my grandad gave usthe money for (which of course meant the house deposit from him wasn't as much) then we had a sky bill thru (when we had just moved into rented accomodation... we gave up with buying)telling us we owed £100 n odd which turned out washers cause she hadn't paid/cancelled and it was in mr. mans name. mr.man gave me impression she said she'd get it sorted straight away. turned out she was only gonna pay £8 amonth! i was NOT gonna spend my entire pregnancy worrying about her paying and with her track record of paying stuff back and according to partner she said she couldn't afford anymore (did i mention she has a suped up 08 ford focus and at the time was having her restaurant redone etc etc but she didn't have an extra £100 and odd to pay her bill) so once again we paid it off. this same 'mother' allowed her partner to kick my mr.man out on his 21st bday and the same mother who told peopleabout our pregnancy knowing my mr.man wanted to tell people in his own time.
i don't want her around me or the babies or knowing about our life yet mr. man keeps saying he 'has totell her' when i give birth becuase 'it's his mum'. am i a horrid horrid person for telling him idon't want him to tell her anything?
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