I regret to have to say that I think me and OH are coming to the end of the road. He is not improving whatsoever with his weekend boozing, that is the only time I see him really, now I am stuck upstairs at his mums after yet another row while he is downstairs no doubt slagging me off to his mum and dad and they believe every little word he says. He has said himself we should split. I can't trust him, all we do is bicker over his drinking, he does nothing to help me. I am a guest at his mums house and he has a go at me for not going round doing the housework. This is the second night he hasn't cooked me tea, because he can't be bothered then says I should do it and I am lazy. I am an effing guest! All last week he was texting me to stay over, I don't like being here. When I am here, he causes an argument then tells me to go back home, how can I go home after I have been crying? I don't want my family involved in our stupid problems. If we do split and I bring baby up alone, I won't be able to stomach the thought of him being with others. It was hard enough the last time we split, he used to text me to get me jealous telling me he had been with others (most were lies) but it still hurts. He will need contact with this child and I do not want him being with other women in front of me and going near my child. When I said this to him, he said he wants no one else but me, but then he carries on upsetting me to the point where I kick off then he says it's over. I don't know what to do. How can I stop being so negative for one? That starts the arguments the most, I know I am doing it but can't stop nagging. Will the gender scan change his attitude or not? I noticed him getting closer once my bump started showing but he is still drinking.