Don't believe it will ever happen...

[LouOscar01]

I really find it hard to stay positive and believe that I will ever get pregnant and be a mother.

I have no reason to believe that I won't...other than it hasn't happened yet (4 months of trying).

I thought I had PCOS...I don't, cycles very irregular since coming off the pill. Got a positive ovulation test once...have only just started temping so hoping to confirm ovulation through temping soon.

How can I try and be positive and allow myself to believe it will happen?

I can't imagine it. I can't believe I will ever be lucky enough simply because it's all I have ever wanted and have WTT for so long.

Need my glass to be half full. Any advice?

 

[mamawolf]

I know 4 months seems like a long time but when ttc it's not that long. Many women try for years before they get those two pink lines. I had no trouble conceiving my first born but tried for 2 years for my second child only to lose him or her two weeks after I found out. I'm still trying for a second living child (technically my third child). Don't give up hope so soon! You'll get there.

 

[TTC 84]

Hey I know how you feel , I Was feeling just like that after my fourth month ttc , I just couldn't imagine it happening , and i already have 4 gorgeous boys . So I completely understand how you would be feeling ttc #1. On the 5th cycle I got my bfp , now I still can't believe it's really happened . . I stopped using opks on 4 th cycle as that was stressing me out , only thing I did do on my 5th cycle was use soft cups and just bd every other day all cycle . It's easy for people to say relax it will happen , but even when I tried to relax I still stressed . Sorry I'm not much help , fingers x you get your bfp soon Hun x

 

[sweetB]

Just wanted to say the feel your pain. Its been 4 mos of trying for me too though it feels like longer. I'm temping and charting and doing opk. Next month I'm going to try the instead cup since I already use them for af. I just try to keep it in perspective that for most people it takes at least 6 months maybe even a year (and more for lots of ladies on here). So don't give up hope!

 

[MrsSB22]

Oh no it's a horrible feeling when you think it'll never happen. I hope it comes soon for you. You may find it'll happen when you least expect it xx