Due Date

[LaraSue]

This weekend (Sunday) was my due date. I'm ok in public, but I'm definitely not when I am alone. I've cried every day for the past week. Last night, I cried so much I had trouble sleeping. I really hope this will go away. I am 25 weeks with my Rainbow, and everything is going nearly perfectly. It's....it's just not fair.

 

[Kasey84]

Hi Hun, sending lots of hugs and comfort for this weekend. I hope you have a ton of support. It's a tough day for sure.

It may help to do something meaningful to remember your baby. My due date passed in June. I started the day by writing a letter to my angel (and crying), then I bought flowers and visited a baby loss monument. I spent the rest of the day with family. Do whatever feels right to you.

Although I still miss my baby, things seemed to get a little easier after that date had passed.

Congrats on your rainbow

 

[Emily2630]

My due date is today but I'm 18 weeks now instead. I'm not sure how I feel. I don't think anyone else remembers and DH hasn't said anything. I'm trying to focus on this new baby who I already love so much, and I know if I hadn't miscarried then I wouldn't have her. It's just so hard still. I can't wait for her to be here.

 

[Kasey84]

Hugs to you too Emily!

 

[LaraSue]

No one remembered but me. I even asked my husband if he knew what today was, and he tried to think of something, but he couldn't.

 

[Emily2630]

I told two friends and it felt good to share it with them... Made me feel like LO hasn't been completely forgotten. At least I know I'll remember. I've been thinking of getting a tattoo in honor of the babies we lost but can't think of anything "special" enough to have on my body forever...but then I'll have them with me forever, in a sense

 

[LaraSue]

https://fc06.deviantart.net/fs17/i/2007/141/f/0/Angel_Tattoo_by_nohge4.jpg

This one is my favorite miscarriage tattoo that I've seen. I love it.