I go back November 19th. I'll be (or should be) 12 weeks by then so I'm really hoping they'll at least try the doppler. Also hoping that if they can't find the heart beat with that then they will send me for an ultrasound. But I'm starting to doubt it at this point.
Wow, I'm surprised they'd ask you wait so long

I know I wouldn't have the patience either... I mean, I only had to wait one week before she'd do another ultrasound, and the day before my appt I ran to the ER for one, I couldn't stand waiting anymore. But I'm sure everything will be okay and they'll find your little bean's HB!

I'm sure if they thought something was wrong they wouldn't wait so long to try again, so I'd think of it as a positive
We went in for another ultrasound today, to see what was going on... the gestational sac has collapsed and there is still a lot left to pass... I was given the options of the D&E, the misoprostol medicine, or to continue passing everything on my own... this time, since I trusted her judgement as she was obviously right about everything, I asked her what she thought was best, she advised the medicine, so I jumped at it, I just want this nightmare to be over now so we can move on to TTC again as soon as possible. I go in and see her again tomorrow morning for another ultrasound to see what has passed, I've taken it all now and there was a lot of pain for about an hour but it's settled down, but ugh, there's hardly anything that's passed this time... if it doesn't go on it's own, we're looking at a D&E, which honestly doesn't sound so bad anymore.
We've been having fun though informing everyone that although this one is gone, we ARE going to TTC again. We've never been so open about TTC because we get judged a LOT in my family and in DH's, especially since DH has 3 children from his previous marriage, therefore he has 5 kids currently, but we were happy to tell everyone that we're happy and we are going to have more children whether they like it or not

Another thing I'm looking forward to is one of my close friends is giving birth to her identical twin boys tomorrow morning!! (scheduled c-section) and I'm hoping she's feeling up to some company later in the afternoon because I'm eager to go down and meet her two newborns!