I honestly do not know why they despise us so much, we have done them no harm. We don't ask for money, or any kind of help and we no longer visit because it "stressed them out so much" to see my "little goose eggs" and it "depressed them so badly" but my kids never want for anything and we do alright.
What happened to them isn't even their fault. My first has brain damage because I had Eclampsia, undiagnosed and untreated. I had a seizure while he was still in my birth canal and he had to be removed via forceps.
My second is a bit behind her peers because she had a mass behind her eye and spent her first year in and out of hospital with seven operations or more, so all that anaesthetic didn't help one bit.
With my third (touch wood) so far nothing seems wrong with him. He was the one they all made a betting pool on, to try and guess what would be wrong with "this one"
The people I am talking about are my mother and my sister and brother btw, not very grandmotherly is she?