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Don't stress, it's the last thing you need! Your family is over reacting and if I was in your position I would have said the same thing to them, tough luck if they don't like it. That first day is about you, your DH and your little bubs. One day wont make a difference. Your family will come round eventually, and if not, it's their fault for missing out on such an important time in your life.
 
Jary I've had nipple leakage! Also doubled in size! They're like jaffa cakes :haha:

Sass, :hugs: that sounds like a horrible situation to be in! They should think themselves lucky tho a lot of people ask for no visitors at all until baby is settled at home so they're lucky really! And asking for their xmas presents back is out of order! I'd leave them to stir, they say they won't come at all but I'm sure that will change! Hope you're ok hun xx
 
Lol! Jaffa cakes! Mine are getting darker now too
 
OMG Sass that's awful! I can't believe they're acting like that. It's really immature and spiteful and unnecessary. I really hope they realize how crazy they're acting a nd come around. If not, don't stress about it, it'll be their loss
 
Sass I totally agree with the others! My parents came on day 2 with DD but they will be there on day 1 this time as they are looking after DD but I've already said I want them leaving soon ish after so we have time as a family. I think that's so important! It's not like you are asking them to come a week later. They sound very immature to me and I just hope they cool off and apologise. So sorry you are going through that.

No nipple leakage here lol, never got it with DD either though.

Exhausted as DD didn't sleep for more than 2 hours last night then DH did his back in today and can't move so I've had no rest. He's in the bath now hoping it will help. Bad bad timing!

Only 4 days now until my scan! Finally!!
 
I am so rubbish at keeping up online with forums but hope u dont mind me popping in when i get time? my mum bought us a moses basket for xmas which was lovely and baby was very spoilt too...scan on the 8th!! cant wait to see baby again. hoep all your pregnancy's are going well :) x
 
Argghh!! I swear if OH calls me hormonal one more time imma show him hormonal and staple his balls to the wall!!

Men lol! X
 
I am so rubbish at keeping up online with forums but hope u dont mind me popping in when i get time? my mum bought us a moses basket for xmas which was lovely and baby was very spoilt too...scan on the 8th!! cant wait to see baby again. hoep all your pregnancy's are going well :) x

Yay for scans!! I'd love to see baby again...weird to think that next time I see our bubs it'll be when they are born! Eek!
 
Thanks girls! You make me feel so much better!
Stevensmommy- you are so funny. Guess I'm in Jaffa cake land too. Did this happen to when you were pregnant with Steven too?
Hann- so happy for your scan! I'm sorry I forget, are you finding out the gender?
 
Sass I can't believe your parents said they were going to take back their gifts! You're not making any sort of unreasonable request either. That's so ridiculous. Perhaps you should tell them that they raised you to behave better than that so shouldn't they do the same?

Stevensmummy, I am NOT a fan of the hormonal comment by anyone, especially DH. I'm all for stapling balls to the wall!
 
Sass I can't remember but OH said I did lol trust him to remember lol

And shell it winds me up so bad, OH annoyed me one day for the full day and when I finally bit I was suddenly 'hormonal' wtf lol! One of these days I'm gonna let him see hormonal! X
 
So ladies, any cravings yet?? Not much with me except I'm loving juicy, fruity things. Like I walk past juicy sweets into the shop and I just want to tuck into them!
 
Yeah I've had major cravings for like a month or so now. Early in the 5th month I was kind of into sweets more, but then I started craving fruits and vegetables more. Maybe that's why my baby is measuring in the 80th percentile for when she was conceived. I eat pretty much all day every day, and all kinds of things.

I have had no leakage, but my breasts are quite a bit larger than they were. I decided to go with the bikini option for swimming now, which is nice because I get to show off the bump. The problem is I had to switch to a less revealing top portion because I was starting to look like the reality TV girls with all the cleavage that was showing.
 
Ha! That's funny math! I just bought 2 tankinis for our babymoon in Feb. Hoping I fit into them well!
Charlene- I hope he's right so I will know they go back to normal, eventually. And screw him for the hormonal comments! We're making PEOPLE here!
Jary - I'm craving everything, as usual, but especially sweets, like chocolate and dessert. I'm really feeling like a cow.
 
Sass - quick question. You're going on your babymoon in Feb and we're planning to do the same. We're due right around the same time... are you guys flying or driving? Hubs and I want to fly out to Colorado to visit some friends and I'll be about 27 weeks so I was wondering if my OB would have any objections. I'm going to ask him at my next appointment, but wanted to see what you guys were doing of what your doctor said. :)
 
Were flying down to the Dominican Republic between weeks 26 and 27. I thought my doctor might object, but she said it was fine through week 36. So did the airline. WTEWYE said the second tri is a great time to travel too. If you fly or drive, you just need to get up every hour or so to stretch your legs.
The only thing that sends up red flags to me is the altitude in CO. DH and I were there this past summer and had SUCH a good time, but the altitude can be a killer. I think there are some issues with altitude and pregnancy, but your doc would probably know.
Found this article for you too. Says its safe to go. https://www.altitudemedicine.org/index.php/altitude-medicine/Altitude-pregnancy
 
Sass - thanks for the info and the article! I was wondering about the altitude too so I'll be sure to ask my OB before we actually book our trip. It was just so hard to plan a trip away between not wanting to go anywhere first tri because of my history of m/c then because of morning sickness and fatigue then it was the holidays and now before we know it, it'll be third tri and too late to go anywhere! I hope we can make it out there as some time away is much needed before baby #3 makes her appearance. Oh and I hope you worked everything out with your family! I can't believe their attitude! I turn super defensive and spiteful when faced with BS like that and tend to be completely irrational so I won't tell you what I would do. ;)

:hi: to everyone else! I still have family here so it's hard to do a proper catch up, but I've been reading! xx
 
Have a happy new year everyone! 2013 is a good year already because we will bring our little stars into the world :)

Anyone have any plans for new year? We are going to a friends tonight and then during the day probably spend time with OHs parents. Nothing too exciting lol.

Couldn't resist and bought two Winnie the Pooh sleepsuits yesterday. They are white and red so good for girl or boy. Went with 'up to 1 month' instead of newborn so if I put it on wriggles when they are born it'll probably be far too big but at least I'll know he/she will grow into it soon enough! :)
 
Jary how funny because I got some things yesterday too - up to one month! Got the 'dear zoo' 2 pack vests and sleepsuit with hat, and 0-6 month sleeping bag (though baby will be swaddled until 3 months), all sainsburys and one sale. It satisfied my urge to buy!
Yours sounds cute!

So jealous of the babymoons! I so need a holiday but can't see it happening before the baby is born as we have 3 weddings which means stag/hen weekends, then family want to visit, so its getting pretty packed.
Talking of weddings, my BIL got engaged like 3 weeks ago and they just set the date of the wedding to 6th Sept 2013, so baby will be 3.5-4 months old. We saw them over xmas and they turned round and said 'by the way there will be so screaming babies during the ceremony' and stared at me! So I replied saying that of course if the baby cried I'd take it out, and I'll have something with me to keep Annabelle entertained. The ceremoney will be 15 mins long as its only civil not religious so they don't have to stay quiet for long, and as if I'd sit there and let the baby cry through it! Anyway I then got a comment about how the brides sister is getting a babysitter for her little boy (who will be 16/17 months old). I think they want us to get a babysitter for our two which is very unpractical because they are getting married 4 hours away from us, we have no family nearby to help as they will all be at the wedding, and to be honest I wouldn't leave my 3/4 month old baby at that age even with family unless it was just for the 30 min ceremony as it will be breastfed so will need me. I was pretty annoyed that they took that attitude when they are close family. Its not like we are just friends of theirs. Anyway we aren't sure whats going to happen, if they insist on us going down the babysitter route then I won't go. I think they think its a reasobale request though because the brides sister left her baby boy when he was 12 weeks to go abroad for her 30th. He was bottle fed but even so I wouldn't have done it. Sorry if this offends anyone who is thinking of leaving their LO's that early but I just personally can't do it!
So we will wait and see what happens anyway!

On a lighter note - 2 days until the scan yay! Bit worried as felt less movement yesterday and today, hoping baby is just in a funny position or doing lots of growing and sleeping. I am also full of cold which might make a difference. I literally can barely breath out of my nose I am so bunged up. Its horrible!!

Hope you all have a nice new year celebration. Mine is going to be very quiet at home, probably watching the fireworks on tv in bed. Anyone going out enjoy the celebrations and your last new year babyless!!
 

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