Im not sure...but my mom has offered to pay for what ever is needed. She has also offered to talk to me about anything because her and my dad has been through it all. They had major issues TTC. But its just kinda weird talking to my mom about this kinda stuff
But its nice to know she understands.
How wonderful to have a mum who not only cares, but who truly understands. You are lucky in that respect hun, I hope things work out for you, and it looks like you may avoid being hog-tied
although they may do it anyway just for fun