Err Woops!

[flump1]

Okay so just kind of needed to get this off my chest a bit lol,
Yesturday me and my OH got a bit carried away and i got my dates completely mixed up (Honestly!) and he ended up doing the deed inside me Sorry TMI! it wasnt till after he said isnt it like 2 weeks after ur af? i was like no that was ages ago...then i thought bout it later and remembered i came on late last month on boxing day and then realised that is will be exactly around ovulation time. (can i just note that he doesnt normally do it at all no matter wot time of the month it is)

Okay so now i dont kno wot to do cos we would both love to have a baby but its not the right time (Well for OH anyway), especially this month as i have just started at a new job and we are going to look at a house on saturday which we might be buying (we are currently renting)!! eeek i just dont know if i can bring myself to go and get an after morning pill but i know thats where i will be going 2moro. Just is nice thinking we could have made a last nite but hey i guess my sensible head has to go on for now.

thanks for reading and sorry for babbling and if i sound silly
xxx

 

[bailey4eva]

av u asked your OH wot he wants to do? He mite be able to help sway you more in a particular direction. Whatever you feel comfortable with will probably work out best. If you decided to let nature do what it intended then u cud end up with a baby (somethin rarely regretted) and change ur plans to suit! Or may not have conceived... Or you can take the morning after pill and continue ur plans how u wanted but wud u regret doin this? I have taken this once before, looking back I probably didnt conceive anyway but at the time would have been way too early. I havent regretted taking it even now wen i want a baby. Completely upto the both of u
Leigh xx

 

[Aveta]

If you decide you don't want a baby right now there is the option of the morning after pill if it's within 72 hours of doing the deed.

 

[toffee87]

How long are your cycles? If they are 28 days then yes, you're probably peak time!

 

[LoveTypeThing]

I know exactly what you are going through; this happened to me 9 days ago; also because I got my dates mixed up and was thinking mine was "ages ago" exactly like you said, I told him I was 85% sure it was safe, then afterwards I checked my calendar because I always keep track, and it was day 14 in my cycle. My cycles are between 26 and 19 days, so I don't think it was the safest thing, but after 9 days I have no symptoms at all, so it's probably fine in my case, which means it could be fine in yours too! Good luck! I know how you feel, also, because even though it was an honest mistake, I feel bad because I told him it was safe, but time will tell.

 

[Pinkgirl]

hhhmm first thing would be to speak to him i guess.
Go with whatever your hearts saying xx

 

[Drazic<3]

how long ago was it, you could take the morning after pill or use the coil? if not, fingers crossed you get the answer your hoping for.

 

[bailey4eva]

flump1 what have you done so far? xx

 

[MoonMuffin]

I took one this month (ended up not conceiving then, but I couldn't risk it), there is no way I could have another baby right now. We live at my in-laws' house and there is just no room. We also in no way would be able to afford another expense. If you do take the pill, I suggest taking the day off, I didn't feel so good when I took it; bad cramps, fatigue, headache and I almost threw up.

 

[flump1]

Hi, thanks for all you're replys. havent been able to get on as been working alot this week.
well i didnt go and take it in the end, we are just gonna wait and see what happens. Yeh 'Lovetypething' i'am the same i do feel a bit bad but i have spoken to him and he knows i didnt do it on purpose.
(my cycles are usually 28 days long, but last month it was a bit longer)
I'v only got a week to wait but it seems like ages away, im getting to understand how the TTC girlys on here feel!!

Thanks xx

 

[flump1]

So thought id just post an update and im a bit confused :S

So im not due my period till at least next friday and im usually very regular and will come on exactly the day im supposed to, but last night i started feeling a little bit crampy. Today i have been bleeding lightly all day but have had no cramping which is very unusual for me as i usually am struck down with really bad cramps for the first day of AF.
I have never ever had AF come early, im wondering if this could be to do with implantation? its 6 days after we BD. hhhhhmmmm confused!
Does anyone have any experience of this? either implantation bleeding or early period.

xx

 

[Lilaala]

My understanding is that implantation occurs 6-10 days after fertilization, so it could be?

 

[ThatGirl]

all ther best hun

 

[ThatGirl]

sounds like implantation to me x

 

[flump1]

okay so still no cramps and the bleeding is stopping today, dont want to get excited but this is very unusual for me.
i hope this week goes quickly so i will be able to know what is going on

thanks for all your replys ladies xxxx