Everyone but us :(

I know right? :happydance:

He was so sweet about it all as well, he said that he thought owning our own place would make me happy because it is something that I have told him I want to do. And I do, just as I have said maybe later. I'm training to be a property solicitor, so it owning is something I am passionate about, just not as passionate as being a mummy. Once I had explained this to him, he said that if being a mummy would make me happy, we could do it first, as all he wants is for me to be happy, and being a daddy would make him happy too :cry: at this point I actually started crying like a big girl! Happy tears! Feels so much better not having that huge maybe with the house issue hanging over me, but waiting will still be so hard with my besty trying for number 2 already! x x
 
I do but the weird thing is - its only certain people. I dont know why!

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Hello everyone! I am new here:flower:
I feel like that sometimes, too! Especially lately, as everyone around me seems to be getting pregnant and my younger sister just had a baby 2 weeks ago! I wasn't jelous when she got pregnant, as I wasn't at that stage yet. I was just happy, simple as. But especially since my nephew was born I started thinking about it more and more... So it's harder now...
Our turn will come sooner or later! We just have to try to be patient, lol:thumbup:
xxx
 
Sometimes it is hard...but I love them all so much and know it will be my turn soon! xxx
 
honestly for us it isn't so bad, i kinda think having maddi (our daughter) makes waiting for another pretty easy, though seeing friends babies just makes me more broody :dohh:, pregnant women not so much as i don't miss my terrible ms :lol:
xx
 
Yeah our turn will come I guess!
Will be years til mine though!

I had lunch with one of my best friends yesterday and she was saying how her OH keeps mentioning babies. It was like WHY ISN'T MIIIINE?! :(
 
Yes! It makes me totally crazy! It's not that I am not happy for them, but with my current situation seeming a little hopeless right now I just can't stand to hear it.
 
yep i do get kinda jealous I'll admit. my best friend just had a bub. i have a few nieces and nephews...i wish it was me :(
 
I think if my OH was more enthusiastic or even remotely interested in TTC it might not be as hard but he seems really satisfied just the 3 of us.

But its kind of my own fault coz when we got together I said I never wanted children :rofl: that changed after we'd been together about 4 months.

Maybe if Id told him from the get go I wanted more he might have been more willing now I guess, I dunno.

But yeah if he seemed interested or wanted to set a date or ANYTHING then it might be a little easier, but atm I can't see us ever trying again.

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Right now it seems that every female I've ever known in my entire life is pregnant, lol. ](*,) :winkwink:
 
Same here Linzi, my OH doesn't know how I feel but even if he did it wouldn't make much difference. If someone our age gets pregnant (we're 18&19) he'll roll his eyes and think they're stupid, so there's no point in me telling him. I think if he was on board this would be so much easier
 

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