Everything happens for a reason!

[RachiePachie]

Hi Guys

Thought I'd better let you know that I miscarried this weekend.

I'm just glad it happened earlier and not later. It was a miracle I fell pregnant anyways, everything happens for a reason! So no sad eyes!

We've decided to name the unborn child, to give her a name (mothers intuition tells me she was a girl) so she has her own little identity.

I'll be sticking around here at Baby and Bump - I've made some good friends so I don't want to leave around - plus I want to see all your pictures to come! Scans and even new baby pictures!

Love to you all!

 

[Jules]

Aww, i'm very sorry for your loss xx

 

[scotchbonnet]

Thinking of you Rachie! Good to hear you are being positive......

I'm really sorry for your loss.

 

[tinytoes]

oh Rachie, thats sad.
You're planning on trying again?
You're an inspiration - so positive!

 

[shamrockgirl4]

sorry u had to go thru this hun and gl for next time thinking of u

 

[elles28]

I am so sorry to hear this you are such a strong brave person.. I will always be here if you need to talk...Love Elle

 

[RachiePachie]

oh Rachie, thats sad.
You're planning on trying again?
You're an inspiration - so positive!

Thank you to everyone who is being so nice to me.

Tiny Toes, to be honest I'm resting for a bit. Although we had been trying for four years to get pregnant this pregnancy was a surprise - we had just excepted that we couldn't have kids this last month and then this pregnancy has had so many bumps - and we only reached 5 weeks 6 days... it was a bad experience - thanks to an abnormal pregnancy and pathetic staff at the EPU (I'd say only one remained positive through it all - all the rest were negative from the get go).

We have decided to move in April 2008 so we'll prolly get back on track when we move and to make sure the hospital has decent staff! lol.

Also just to let you know, we had chosen a name for her. She may have been young but she was still a little life - Alicia Marie.

 

[Linzi]

Im so sorry for your loss. Good to hear you keeping positive. Taking a break might be the best thing if theres a lot going on in your life.

Pleased to hear you're sticking around.

xxx

 

[ElliesMum]

Oh i am so sorry. I just replied to your other post.

Stay strong, stay positive. Sending you love and hugs

 

[Mango]

Rachie I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you find some comfort soon and will be ok. You're in my thoughts hun! Your positive outlook is a blessing on its own.

 

[reallytinyamy]

I'm so sorry for your loss. You are so positive, it's an inspiration

 

[RachiePachie]

Awwww, it's really nice to hear that you think I'm an inspiration because of my strength.

I just knew what I needed to do to get through it. I cried initially of course the hardest I've cried since my granddad passed away in 2000, I got angry because I don't understand the cruelty of it all and then knew that in order to make the step forward I needed to name her. Which I did.

I did it all quickly but I hate feeling depressed - I like to move forward and remember the little life I had inside of me and not the fact I lost the life.

It breaks my heart all the same and I haven't yet been able to listen to the baby's song but I am only human

 

[Vickie]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. The name you've chosen is beautiful.

 

[clairebear]

oh rachie im so sorry. but at least ur looking on the positive side good luck in the future hun xxxx

 

[Tam]

Rachie, I am so sorry hun! I do agree with you, everything happens for a reason and better sooner than later, but even so.....it is still a very sad thing to happen.

I am glad you are sticking around hun, it will be great to have you stay!

I hope you are feeling as well as can be expected, just take time for yourself babe! x

 

[honeybunch2k7]

I'm sorry hun.

 

[CK Too]

So sorry to hear of your loss. Like you said everything happens for a reason and this time it just wasn´t meant to be. Thats how a friend of mine looked at it when she miscarried and she´s now pregnant with her second child. Your time will come. Glad you are able to stay and think so positively - I admire you for that.

Take care of yourself