Hi all
My evil SIL is on her way to see us. She has a baby... Who i do love! But i dislike her so much! Long story short she has always been nasty to me always passing sly remarks at me and we've had a public display of her shouting at me over me not wanting her to get me a drink ( all i did was say no... 5 mins later husband asked me if i wanted a drink i thought oh yes as i had gotten food in those 5mins!)
But since we told her i was pregnant she almost passed out ( jealousy of attention diverting from her!) And she from that day she started saying oh wait till this and that ( like acne , sickness etc) and started lecturing me infront of everyone about being pregnant and how she loved it and she bloomed blah blah blah!
Prior to this she always used to call me 'fat!' I'm a size 6/8 with big boobs and a flat stomach which i gymed my bottom off for! I also eat alot ( my family is verrrryyy typical pakistani food lovers! We dont do diet foods!) And she claims i eat nothing and she eats more than me and is still so petite ( she had anorexia and she does NOT eat. My MIL is forever complaining about her daughters food habbits they can survive the whole day on one piece of toast as they love to be skinny twigs!)
Now my problem is she is coming over to give me a headache and carry on putting me down. I know she will say my bump is small or i dont even look pregnant or something hurtful.
I tend to ignore her which to be honest being an only child i'd thump her in the face. But i'm pregnant now and i am NOT wanting to take her crap today. If she dares lectures me or tells me i dont look pregnant or my bump is small or she was HUGE at 14 weeks or something nasty do i just tell her straight that she should shut her anorexic mouth and keep her opinions to herself (i can blame hormones!) Or do i just ignore it. I really do want to say something though as i know i will end up telling hubby after and he will want to say something to her and i will stop him ending up in US fighting!
And to add to my misery i'm studying for my exams so evilness will be wasting my time
I do love my nephew though but even his cuteness can't hide how much i would like to high kick his mother in the face
Help me
*sniffle*
My evil SIL is on her way to see us. She has a baby... Who i do love! But i dislike her so much! Long story short she has always been nasty to me always passing sly remarks at me and we've had a public display of her shouting at me over me not wanting her to get me a drink ( all i did was say no... 5 mins later husband asked me if i wanted a drink i thought oh yes as i had gotten food in those 5mins!)
But since we told her i was pregnant she almost passed out ( jealousy of attention diverting from her!) And she from that day she started saying oh wait till this and that ( like acne , sickness etc) and started lecturing me infront of everyone about being pregnant and how she loved it and she bloomed blah blah blah!
Prior to this she always used to call me 'fat!' I'm a size 6/8 with big boobs and a flat stomach which i gymed my bottom off for! I also eat alot ( my family is verrrryyy typical pakistani food lovers! We dont do diet foods!) And she claims i eat nothing and she eats more than me and is still so petite ( she had anorexia and she does NOT eat. My MIL is forever complaining about her daughters food habbits they can survive the whole day on one piece of toast as they love to be skinny twigs!)
Now my problem is she is coming over to give me a headache and carry on putting me down. I know she will say my bump is small or i dont even look pregnant or something hurtful.
I tend to ignore her which to be honest being an only child i'd thump her in the face. But i'm pregnant now and i am NOT wanting to take her crap today. If she dares lectures me or tells me i dont look pregnant or my bump is small or she was HUGE at 14 weeks or something nasty do i just tell her straight that she should shut her anorexic mouth and keep her opinions to herself (i can blame hormones!) Or do i just ignore it. I really do want to say something though as i know i will end up telling hubby after and he will want to say something to her and i will stop him ending up in US fighting!
And to add to my misery i'm studying for my exams so evilness will be wasting my time
I do love my nephew though but even his cuteness can't hide how much i would like to high kick his mother in the face
Help me
*sniffle*