This thread caught my eye while I was looking for some specific information - I am no longer breastfeeding. I agree with the original sentiment, that people should be able to be open about their reasons for stopping, but unfortunately a few comments have slipped through that make it easy to see why people do feel the need to make an excuse. There have been some comments which suggest that people are buying into the idea that women who say they had a low milk supply are somehow kidding themselves, or just didn't persist. I find this very hurtful.
I had a very low supply and a very slow let down - this resulted in a baby losing weight because he would try to feed, get almost nothing and scream and refuse to latch again. After a while he became completely discouraged and wouldn't even try to latch on - even with the intervention of a very experienced breast feeding specialist midwife and a lactation consultant. We were told to give formula urgently and given an enormous amount of support to try to get my supply up and I tried everything. I pumped constantly, I tried to feed him whenever I could get him at all interested, I tried herbal remedies, I discussed medication with my GP. In the end I BF exclusively for less than 2 weeks, mix-fed in ever decreasing amounts (with the breast milk being mainly expressed) and finished up on just one BF per day up to about 3 months when my milk disappeared altogether.
Unfortunately whenever low supply is mentioned I see a certain cynical expression appear on people's faces and some of the comments on this thread echo this. I have been told outright that everyone can get their supply up. My MW and breastfeeding consultant both told me that a low supply is NOT as rare as people think and that in the old days we would have used a wetnurse or he simply wouldn't have made it.
Please be very careful in coming to a judgement as to whether something is just an excuse or not - lots of people seem to think I am just making excuses but if they had been a fly on the wall in our home in those early days they would certainly think again.
I don't believe that I went into BFing with a defeatist attitude or that any more persistence would have got me anywhere but into a bout of PND and my LO probably into hospital. Maybe I better come up with an implausible excuse - he truth clearly isn't cutting it.