Aneesa_09
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Hi ladies
I am due approx April 14th which makes me around 12 weeks. This is my fourth and my belly is quite pokey out already, it can pass as too much food but it looks suspicious non the less.
Me and Oh haven't told non of our family, and I don't know why I feel like they are going to be very judgemental about the situation.
My oh does visit his family and his mom a lot and they all feel very involved. No one babysits my children they all go into day care / school while I am busy so it's not like I'm constantly asking them to babysit or anything but I just think they will be quote negative in terms of us not owning our house yet.
I love being pregnant and I don't know what's wrong with me this time around, my last pregnancies I didn't tell no one till about 14/15 weeks each time but I feel that the longer I have kept this one the more I have dreaded the comments
I think I am going to announce this weekend to family as I want to enjoy my pregnancy and I feel like I care far too much about their opinions. Maybe it's because I am scared the criticism will have truth about it.
This baby was not planned and I'm scared s***less on how I wi juggle it all but I see children as such a blessing and they will be a much loved addition to my then complete family.
Any one else feel similar?
Or can share some words of wisdom on dealing with ppls comments?
I have already heard the don't u own a TV with #3.
I remember reading some advice a few years back on this site where a lady said to share the news so happy with smiles so then they r kinda forced to be happy for u... I will be deploying this tack tick
I am due approx April 14th which makes me around 12 weeks. This is my fourth and my belly is quite pokey out already, it can pass as too much food but it looks suspicious non the less.
Me and Oh haven't told non of our family, and I don't know why I feel like they are going to be very judgemental about the situation.
My oh does visit his family and his mom a lot and they all feel very involved. No one babysits my children they all go into day care / school while I am busy so it's not like I'm constantly asking them to babysit or anything but I just think they will be quote negative in terms of us not owning our house yet.
I love being pregnant and I don't know what's wrong with me this time around, my last pregnancies I didn't tell no one till about 14/15 weeks each time but I feel that the longer I have kept this one the more I have dreaded the comments
I think I am going to announce this weekend to family as I want to enjoy my pregnancy and I feel like I care far too much about their opinions. Maybe it's because I am scared the criticism will have truth about it.
This baby was not planned and I'm scared s***less on how I wi juggle it all but I see children as such a blessing and they will be a much loved addition to my then complete family.
Any one else feel similar?
Or can share some words of wisdom on dealing with ppls comments?
I have already heard the don't u own a TV with #3.
I remember reading some advice a few years back on this site where a lady said to share the news so happy with smiles so then they r kinda forced to be happy for u... I will be deploying this tack tick