facebook agreement..?

[Dollfacee]

thats awful! id maybe just choose who ur friends are abit more carfuly, but like i said its only fb u dont need it. so no harm in deleting it. x

these so called friends who i have spoke to about private stuff and only them is his brothers girlfriend and his friends! and they seem to have taken my problems and twisted them round into one big drama, if we have a slight argument there on my case asking whats wrong, the next minuite they are ringing his parents!

 

[gemabee]

Me and my DH both have FBs. It's never caused an issue between either of us but we are very laid back. We both know each others passwords and encourage each other to feel open with them. Like he'll ask me to check his for him and vice versa.

I think it can only really cause a problem if there are cracks or issues in a relationship already IMHO. EG if one of you is the jealous type then comments and messages could become bothersome... if one of you is a flirt and uses FB wrongly then again it'll cause issues etc etc xx

completely agree!! i am pretty laid back bout relationships tbh... the reason me nd my ex split up was my ex wouldn't change his status to 'in a relationship'... nd would delete any comments i put on his page... he didn't want anyone to see we were together... nd would flirt unashamedly with other girls... so there were major cracks in our relationship which is why facebook ruined it.
if someone on fb, told someone else on fb that ur bf was beatin u up... wouldn't they have told them regardless of u havin a fb or not??
xx

 

[Dollfacee]

Me and my DH both have FBs. It's never caused an issue between either of us but we are very laid back. We both know each others passwords and encourage each other to feel open with them. Like he'll ask me to check his for him and vice versa.

I think it can only really cause a problem if there are cracks or issues in a relationship already IMHO. EG if one of you is the jealous type then comments and messages could become bothersome... if one of you is a flirt and uses FB wrongly then again it'll cause issues etc etc xx

completely agree!! i am pretty laid back bout relationships tbh... the reason me nd my ex split up was my ex wouldn't change his status to 'in a relationship'... nd would delete any comments i put on his page... he didn't want anyone to see we were together... nd would flirt unashamedly with other girls... so there were major cracks in our relationship which is why facebook ruined it.
if someone on fb, told someone else on fb that ur bf was beatin u up... wouldn't they have told them regardless of u havin a fb or not??
xx

they most proberbly would of, but apprently i told them over facebook (which i havnt been on much this week) but of corse my OH is going to question the matter as the person is family! this is all over a tiff me and him had and a few things got smashed and kicked.. thats all

 

[moomin_troll]

thats awful! id maybe just choose who ur friends are abit more carfuly, but like i said its only fb u dont need it. so no harm in deleting it. x

these so called friends who i have spoke to about private stuff and only them is his brothers girlfriend and his friends! and they seem to have taken my problems and twisted them round into one big drama, if we have a slight argument there on my case asking whats wrong, the next minuite they are ringing his parents!

whe ohs cousin was trying to stir stuff and oh was ignoring her she came on my fb chat n was like make T talk to me or ile call his mum.

i burst out laughin, then she asked for my home number i told her to kindly f*ck off.

some people really have no lifes

 

[fluffyblue]

We share the same password on ours and I would never to anything like that, he doesnt have many exes but I know he would never do anything on it.

we love leaving each other little messages on it

 

[moomin_troll]

my oh breaks things when we fight sometimes but hed never hit me and i no that for a fact. i could never be scared of him

 

[Dollfacee]

my oh breaks things when we fight sometimes but hed never hit me and i no that for a fact. i could never be scared of him

my OH wouldnt ever hurt me either, and i dont belive hes twisted enough to beat me whilst pregnant, it takes real balls to do that to someone let alone there own baby.. im not scared of my OH and he knows im not.. if he hit me hed be to worried about if i lashed out back haha..

 

[moomin_troll]

my oh breaks things when we fight sometimes but hed never hit me and i no that for a fact. i could never be scared of him

my OH wouldnt ever hurt me either, and i dont belive hes twisted enough to beat me whilst pregnant, it takes real balls to do that to someone let alone there own baby.. im not scared of my OH and he knows im not.. if he hit me hed be to worried about if i lashed out back haha..

yeah my oh knows i can pack a punch n id fight back if i really had to but i no i never would have to lol
if we have a tiff n zanes about, zanes(our son) the one who will come up n hit either me or oh depends on whos the one whos been upset it hahaha hes crazy lol

have a chat to ur oh, facebook isnt worth arguing over so dont worry about it x

 

[Dollfacee]

my oh breaks things when we fight sometimes but hed never hit me and i no that for a fact. i could never be scared of him

my OH wouldnt ever hurt me either, and i dont belive hes twisted enough to beat me whilst pregnant, it takes real balls to do that to someone let alone there own baby.. im not scared of my OH and he knows im not.. if he hit me hed be to worried about if i lashed out back haha..

yeah my oh knows i can pack a punch n id fight back if i really had to but i no i never would have to lol
if we have a tiff n zanes about, zanes(our son) the one who will come up n hit either me or oh depends on whos the one whos been upset it hahaha hes crazy lol

have a chat to ur oh, facebook isnt worth arguing over so dont worry about it x

we have spoke and we are back to normal, but i feel deleting it will make it so much better i just love him more than anything.. and would do ANYTHING for him really.

 

[moomin_troll]

u may aswel just delete it then, its really not worth the time. uve still got us hahaha

 

[Dollfacee]

u may aswel just delete it then, its really not worth the time. uve still got us hahaha

hehe yep thanks hunny, always love a good chat on BnB x

 

[xemmax]

depends on what you use your facebook for - we don't really put anything too personal on there besides pictures. and i would never, ever think about posting anything on there about our relationship. i hate seeing people making digs at their partners on there or arguing with eachother on their walls. think it's totally disrespectful!

he does have some very pretty girls on his friend list though, but i don't really get jealous.. though i understand how frustrated people get when their partners are chatting away to their ex-girlfriends on there. think that may bring out the green eyed monster in anyone! x

It was more the chat about meeting up in a hotel for the afternoon that annoyed me TBH.... it never happened but the discussion about it was there... thats bad enough! x

:O thats terrible. wtf was he playing at

I know, I never really told anyone so you ladies r very lucky lol, I was pretty heavily pregnant when I discovered it as well (wasnt that long ago), clearly he had issues I wasnt aware of but we are working through them... some other people often wonder why I randomly slate him in my posts lol x

that's really sad honey, hope you manage to sort things out and he has seen the error of his ways xx

 

[MaybeMomSarah]

I'm feeling like I'm in the minority here. My OH and I both use facebook regularly, I'm friends with ex's on FB, we know eachother's passwords, post on eachother's walls, and have never had a single issue what so ever. Living far away from home, I use FB to stay connected with friends and family, and to get to know my OH's friends here.

I follow the earlier train of thought....if you're having problems on FB, its probably not just confined to FB.

Although, I've been told that this is part of that "oh, your relationship is different since you're with another woman - less jealousy issues without male hormones", apparently!

 

[happigail]

just want to add, me and my man don't have problems in our relationship, we NEVER had facebook to start with. I just hate facebook full stop, if you are important in my life,then you're in it regardless of facebook. My god there was time it didn't exist, everyone managed fine then.

 

[Pyrrhic]

The internet was partly to blame for my ex husband and I splitting.

He was on it all the time, using forums, FB, twitter, etc. He 'met' and chatted to several women on there inappropriately and recently even started seeing a married woman, and keeping up communication with her via twitter and FB.

He refused to use the above sites less, and stop talking to the women so he lost me and my daughter.

Hope it was worth it!

 

[kellis]

my dh doesn't have facebook, he's not interested but i do. Having said that i only have a few freinds and the rest are family, i hate it when people randomly add people just to bump the numbers up. My sis has hundreds of people on and she doesn't know most of them lol

 

[stardust599]

I'm in two minds!!! We both have FB, sometimes it causes issues when I can see OH has a private message or something he won't open and he adds these porno ladies as friends so it really bugs me. It only really becomes an issues when we already have other issues ongoing! But he's never had a problem with mine, probably cos I always leave it logged on my laptop so he could look whenever he wants and I only have friends and family.

On the old bebo site sometimes it would cause bother if someone tagged old photos of hm with an ex, other girls etc. before he met me - my friends have always been respectful enough to take down photos like this of me and it would irritate me that he couldn't ask his to do the same!

And sometimes if he's had a night out there can be photos of him dancing/carrying on with girls that annoy me but then I think he was still with them whether or not the photos are on Facebook so at least that way its open and I know about it?
xxx

 

[babytots]

Me and my partner both have facebook i know his password (due to him being a computer novice and he gets me to add photos onto his profile) but he doesn't know mine.

We do have trust issues due to him cheating (or not as he swears nothing went on) with a work collegue 2 years ago but he has slowly won my trust back. I can trust him with facebook as he just uses it to play games or keep in touch with family members and thats it.

If it ever became a problem then we would talk it over but I can't see it ever happening. x

 

[ShanandBoc]

I dont think its its FB thats the issue, mores so the parties involved doing the wrong thing.

If they are gonna cheat well they will do it eventually with or without fb imo.

That being said i think the internet provides more windows of opportunity iykwim

Both me and my DH have facebook. We sit next to eachother on our computers, i know his password he knows mine, he says he doesnt care i can go on his whenever i want.

He has had ex's try and add him but shows me the friend requests and then hits the ignore button in front of me. x

 

[kfarb]

I love facebook. My husband has one, I have one. We trust each other and have never had any problems. Plus, it puts me in contact with a lot of family in other states I'd never get to know otherwise.