facebook agreement..?

[GossipGirly]

we both have a fb and only speak to friends and family on it as we live away from them, never add anyone we dont know and have nothing to hide on it either x

 

[tuesday]

I think it can cause a "rocky" relationship troubles yes.
I have FB and Karl does too and only time it has causes trouble is when we broke up and i slagged him off on it lol

Ditto feel so sad after when we are 'ok' again, I can't help myself as soon as we argue....

 

[Princess86]

Me and hubby both have FB.. i wouldn't blame FB for any sort of arguments or mis-understandings it's down to the couple if they don't have any trust on each other!.

 

[ethansmommy]

i have a few "issues" with it.
on facebook i don't really have any issues as he's brand new on the site..but his ex gf posted something on one of my statuses a week ago. it wasn't mean. it was actually pretty nice telling me to cheer up but i didn't say anything back it just felt too weird. but today she posted something on his wall along the lines of "hey buddy tosh.o is coming to greensboro. how's life?" it just made me feel weird knowing that they'd spent at least a year of their lives together.

my big problem is with his myspace though. he adds all these bootylicious girls up there. he never really talks to them but it still makes me feel uncomfortable. i'm feeling 'not' sexy at the moment and those girls are size o hips but the biggest booties ever. (which i happen to not have)

 

[moomin_troll]

my problem wouldnt be my oh with exs as he wouldnt talk to them, its his mother ive gota watch out for as she tried to invite his ex to our wedding!

 

[NetsaBaba]

Yeah i dont like fb and dont really want to know that one of my friends is making an omlette so i have no use for it. I deleted mine a while back and DH has never had one.

 

[kittykitty]

My hubby and I are regulars of facebook and will check our profiles numerous times a day. We both know each others passwords, for various reasons read each others pm's (one of us is still logged in and the other notices a messages so we read them to each other, or I need an urgent message sending so ask him to do it).

We did have 1 issue which involved facebook, he got in contact with an old friend and their friendship evolved a little too much but I found out before it got too far and because it was a web based programme I got the evidence to prove to him I knew. This however wasn't facebook's fault, we had an issue in our relationship and fb was another form of contact, no different to mobile etc.

We know who each others friends are (most are mutual), and often use it to keep in contact with family (esp mine as I moved away), upload photos, announce things like my pregnancy. My families (aunts, grandparents) often comment they keep updated with my lifr by it, but we are both very particular about who we add, who can see what and our fb's are only visable to 'friends' only.

As we have complete trust and a solid relationship I don't see an issue what so ever, and actually really benefit from the site.

 

[LALSmith]

My OH has always been really pathetic when it comes to FB. Although since being pregnant it doesn't seem to be as much of an issue lol. He would say things like "you don't even know most of the people on there. You've got over 400 friends - you can't possible know all of them" or he'd say "their not REAL friends - just people you might know off" etc. I made a point once of going through them all to tell how/where I know them from! He used to get very worried about other blokes fancying me, not so much now though!!! (just wait till this LO is out & I'm
back to my old self! Lol). He would hate other men commenting on things. And a lot of the time it would just be things in general. But I've never let him 'win' - he's asked me to delete it many of times in the past but I've refused out of pure principal that he's being childish & pathetic. He's never had any reason to doubt or not trust me so I made a strong point of never getting rid of it & making sure he realised that's it's his own issues that need sorting not mine. He has got an account & used to use it quite frequently but now he doesn't, claims it's a waste of time & he "doesn't care what other people are having for breakfast" lol.

 

[LALSmith]

Also just to add, we've both got all of our exs on there & people who we may have had 'brief relations' with in the past but that's never been an issue for us as we know it's in the past & were both pretty confident people when it comes to having an attitude like "well their hardly me are they" lol. Sound really arragant but we both believe each of our exs are nothing compare to us. I actual know a couple of his exs but just think "they'd never match up to me" & Luke has that view too so having them on FB has never caused any issues

 

[Dollfacee]

My OH has always been really pathetic when it comes to FB. Although since being pregnant it doesn't seem to be as much of an issue lol. He would say things like "you don't even know most of the people on there. You've got over 400 friends - you can't possible know all of them" or he'd say "their not REAL friends - just people you might know off" etc. I made a point once of going through them all to tell how/where I know them from! He used to get very worried about other blokes fancying me, not so much now though!!! (just wait till this LO is out & I'm
back to my old self! Lol). He would hate other men commenting on things. And a lot of the time it would just be things in general. But I've never let him 'win' - he's asked me to delete it many of times in the past but I've refused out of pure principal that he's being childish & pathetic. He's never had any reason to doubt or not trust me so I made a strong point of never getting rid of it & making sure he realised that's it's his own issues that need sorting not mine. He has got an account & used to use it quite frequently but now he doesn't, claims it's a waste of time & he "doesn't care what other people are having for breakfast" lol.

my OH does the exact same to me as yours does to you!! you dont know them.. and if there a boy they 'want only one thing' and thats why there being nice to me, i say to him not every boy mate is a tosser, so i just dont bother with boy mates no more, i had a bestfriend (boy mate) who he made delete me, he was like my brother.. and i dont even think he knows im pregnant!! sometimes i miss the support hhe gives me.. but he most proberbly hates me now.

 

[Beth8ny]

Both me and my husband have facebook accounts and I think we both know each others passwords not that we would ever go in to each others. We leave them open all the time so we're both very trusting. He has to speak with his ex via facebook as she lives in Sweden and they have a daughter together. Too be honest though neither of us are jealous people and neither of us have any interest in using facebook to flirt with other people so I figure its harmless

 

[jogami]

We both have FB and I get cross with OH cos he's never on there to update or see what's going on. He has he has no interest in it, so I "manage" his FB account for him!
Suppose I should feel lucky that he's not on there doing all sorts of nonsense...