Wiffie81
Married since 2006
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We are TTC #1
We are often discussing things for when we do get our
But tonight my hubby started to say that he wasnt sure now about whether we had a big enough family support around us. None of our parents live anywhere near us, they are about 200 miles away, although we have lots of friends, none of them have children yet, you know that when you are in a group of friends, someone is always first to have children, that would be us. We made the move to the city 10 years ago from the north. We have friends up north who do have children and big families, so I do agree in case of emergencies yes there would be more help.
Anyway, I think he wants to move house now (ie back up to our parents) so we can have the grandparents closer by! I just dont want to move, but I do so want to have a family. He said he didnt want to stop trying, but he thought I wasnt being realistic if I thought we could do it on our own.
We have thought about work and stuff, you know going part time and being able to afford things financially, but I didnt really take into consideration "the emergencies"
Can anyone else TTC relate to this?
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We are often discussing things for when we do get our
But tonight my hubby started to say that he wasnt sure now about whether we had a big enough family support around us. None of our parents live anywhere near us, they are about 200 miles away, although we have lots of friends, none of them have children yet, you know that when you are in a group of friends, someone is always first to have children, that would be us. We made the move to the city 10 years ago from the north. We have friends up north who do have children and big families, so I do agree in case of emergencies yes there would be more help.
Anyway, I think he wants to move house now (ie back up to our parents) so we can have the grandparents closer by! I just dont want to move, but I do so want to have a family. He said he didnt want to stop trying, but he thought I wasnt being realistic if I thought we could do it on our own.
We have thought about work and stuff, you know going part time and being able to afford things financially, but I didnt really take into consideration "the emergencies"
Can anyone else TTC relate to this?
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