SJD- I hate to say it but your right, sex IS getting boring! I was especially worried this past cycle because it felt like we were getting burned out- and still no baby. This time around we are definitely gonna take it easy, just focus on bding whenever we want and recapturing the passion iykwim
I've been trying to keep it spontaneous so we won't get burnt out on sex. Varying the time or the place or the invitation makes it more exciting. We also try to mix up the foreplay. Get some candles and massage oil and start with a romantic massage one day and the next, break out the edible undies and chocolate sauce. The more relaxed you are, the better your chances to conceive. So make sure you enjoy what you're doing! And if it does feel like a chore one day, don't BD that day (unless it's the day of ov)...Are you BDing every other day leading up to ov? Having that break helps the production of sperm AND gives you a break from it all...
DH has a rule that we can't BD because of ov. It has to be because our bodies are telling us to jump each other. Good thing my libido does kick it up a notch around ov (it's usually high anyway, but I feel more spontaneous around ov) and I can always truthfully say that I'm jumping him because my body wants me to.