yeah, i actually find some comfort in that....being with like company =)
So totally (well not entirely) off topic but I'm wrestling with something and since you're PAL you will be able to relate. I just found out yesterday that one of my good friends is 8 weeks pregnant. She's told no one other than her DH (obviously lol) and went for her first ultrasound today. She's been spotting on and off since week 5 but never mentioned it to her OB and never got bloods drawn or anything. She was like, "I figure if I'm nauseous then that means my hormone levels are good so I'm fine" and all I said was "right". Because I didn't want to say, "Yes but if it's a molar pregnancy your hcg levels will be astronomically high, etc...." but didn't want to scare her so I didn't say much more than that.
Her scan was about 2 hours ago and I haven't heard a word from her, she said she'd let me know right away how it went. I'm fearing the worst for her and have a text typed out on my phone asking how it went but haven't sent it yet because if she DID get bad news, she's going to have taken it horribly hard.
She's wanted a baby for years, would cry sometimes when seeing a woman with a newborn, she's the kind whose hearts literally ached from wanting to be a mommy. So I know this is her dream....should I give her space and time and wait for her to contact me or do you think it's okay that I reach out and ask her. She said that I would be the first one she would come to if something went wrong because she knows I've been through that before....I just don't want to push if she did indeed, get bad news.
Sorry for the ramble, just mixed on what I should do.