Feel so stupid!

[KateyCakes]

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[abi17]

Omg I could of wrote your last post! I agree so much with people on here you only have to tell what you want them too know. Friends and family are so nosy! I have no scan pictures on Facebook as in my opinion if they haven't made an effort to come and see me why should they see my scan pictures as lots of people come out of the woodwork when you announce your pregnant don't you think? Was you in hospital for a long time after? I'm hoping as long as I don't bleed and my little girls ok I can be out in a few days. It might be wishful thinking though x

 

[KateyCakes]

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[abi17]

We like arabella joy, her surname will be Haynes but I don't really want to name her before she's here if that makes sense. Did you name cadence before she was born? I'm surprised you didn't lose lots of blood. I shouldn't because I'm stoping them 48 hours before but I would of thought by staying on them you would have lost lots. How long did you bleed for after? Was the recovery ok for a c section? And what about your scar did it heal well? Sorry for all the questions it's just things I'm worried of x

 

[KateyCakes]

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[abi17]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Were you far along in your pregnancy? Thanks I really like it everyone thinks it's weird but I love it and so does dan so that's all that matters. Aww that's lovely regarding why you picked cadence, it really was fate. I can't believe they never took you off the injections, that's so dangerous... Your so lucky you and cadence are ok.
That's so good about the recovery time and the scar it's two things that really worry me.
How are you today? How's cadence? Xx

 

[KateyCakes]

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[abi17]

I haven't seen ur message, il have a look in a minute. How long have you and your partner been together? I'm surprised they even let you consider a natural labour they won't even let me talk about it it's too dangerous apparently. I'm so sorry to hear about your losses. Were you trying for another? Were both ok, she keeps headbutting me in the ribs so I'm a bit uncomfortable and not sleeping well at the moment x

 

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[abi17]

You can't blame yourself Hun, everything happens for a reason. Me and fan have been together for 4 years engaged for almost 2. I can feel every body part too it's so strange. I wish she would turn just a little bit at least as she's so uncomfortable at the moment. I see your engaged are you planning your wedding for any time soon?
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[abi17]

I mean dan not fan x

 

[KateyCakes]

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[abi17]

Yer we are, we were planning on getting married before we found out we was pregnant too. We were actually putting deposits down two weeks after we found out to get married in Cuba but now that's on hold until our little girl is about 2, so 2013. I want her to be walking so she can be a flower girl and we will be getting married over here now instead too. I'm sorry to hear his ex put him in so much debt, it's just not fair is it!
Will you wait to have more children till after your wedding or do you want another before hand?
How have you found motherhood?
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[abi17]

I really want too get married first before we have any more. I really want me, dan and her to have the same surname. Aww that's lovely, are the first 3 months the most stressful as people say. I no youve only just come out of that bracket but I was just wondering. I can't wait too be a mummy. I think little girls are daddy's girls, I deffo was. I used too sit by the front door I used to know he was coming home no matter what time in the day so I won't be surprised if she is too. Did you want a little girl or didn't you mind? How old are you and your fiancé? X

 

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