feeling a little sad and let down...

[Cherbare]

I wrote a post a few days ago called "Pregnant again after Losing my Angel in June" and I was really upset that not one person replied. I'm really scared with this pregnancy and although I have some very supportive and wonderful friends I really wanted to hear from some people that are pregnant again after going through something similar to me. I've always been able to find support on here with all I've been through so I was just feeling a little let down. I'm sorry I'm probably just overly emotional with the hormones and all...

 

[Tulip]

Hey sweetie, I'm sorry I only get to venture out of my millions of subscribed threads occasionally to check the boards It's so great that you've fallen pregnant again so soon after saying goodbye to little Thumper - I think it took me about the same time after Ruby left us.

It's normal to stress so much more as this pregnancy will be more scary and mean that much more to you after your loss. I think a lot of us feel a level of guilt for moving on from our angels, but the truth is that our new beans need us to concentrate on them, to believe in them and pass on our strength. Thumper will be sending strength to your new baby while he plays with the other angels. xxxxx

 

[fluffyblue]

Hi hun, we will all be here just sometimes people dont know what to say in certain situations, all the girls on this section have been through some sort of loss and do understand how you feel, maybe on the winter or spring threads may help as lots of people talk in these and sometimes its easier to talk to a group instead of waiting for an individual answer (iykwim) xxx

Anyway congrats on your pregnancy and hope its all plain sailing xxxx

 

[gemstone]

hey there, i lost my baby in june too. and i am now preganant again.. a very scary time for us. how are u feeling ?? xx

 

[babysimpson]

Cherbare, we all understand what you're going through. I've had three miscarriages last year and this is my first pregnancy since taking a break for a year. Already i'm experiencing on /off bleeding but trying to stay positive.

We're all here for you and like fluffyblue said, you'll probably get a quicker response from the spring or winter threads as these seem to be the most popular.

 

[stardust22]

Sorry to hear you are feeling so down. I have had 2 miscarriages this year and the last one only a week ago. I just hope I can get my sticky little bean next time as I am also just so low some days I wonder how I will ever be happy again.

I know I havent really given you any helpful advice but I do know how hard this journey is and send you big

 

[Vickieh1981]

Sweetie, that sucks. I hate people feeling that way.

I tend to only go on the long threads that I am subscribed to and not see a lot of the other threads, that's how I manage to devote so much time to them lol

I am really sorry that happened to you. You are a lovely person and I don't want you hurt. I will never forget how nicely you made my pictures of Isabella for me.

I am thrilled to see you are pregnant again and it's totally understandable that you are scared.

 

[MikaylasMummy]

congratulations on your pregnancy hun.no advice but i hope everything goes perfectly for you.x

 

[Peril]

Congratulations on your latest pregnancy... I wish you all the best with this one and hope that this one sticks xx

It is a terrifying time for all of us, i for one am neurotic... but i am trying to relax and take each day as it comes. Most days i try to ignore the fact i am pregnant (self-defence mechanism i think!)

Wishing you all the best xx

 

[hb1]

It's always upsetting if you get no replies - I put a thread on 2nd tri as I was worried about chicken pox and got no replies. I used to always scroll down and if I saw a thread with no replies would go on and at least say something.

Sorry you feel let down during a very vulnerable time you will generally get a lot of support on PAL as everyone is going through the same thing as you. Maybe join the Spring babies thread as everyone goes on that thread all the time - you would never get missed there!!

Hope your pregnancy goes nice and smoothly - and having a lot of hormones going on is a good thing
hx

 

[Cherbare]

hey there, i lost my baby in june too. and i am now preganant again.. a very scary time for us. how are u feeling ?? xx

How far along are you? I couldn't believe we got pregnant again so soon, it took us over 2 years the first time! I've pretty much been feeling like crap all the time! LOL I have all day sickness that comes and goes throughout the day and gets especially bad at night when I try to go to bed. I'm trying to stay positive while waiting for my scan at 10-12 weeks but it's not easy. How are you feeling?

 

[mislaww]

Sorry about the lack of replies - I never saw your thread! But you're not alone - every one of us on this forum have felt how you feel. It's a terrifying time. BUT as you can see from reading the other posts, our chances are excellent - I love seeing the updates on the Rainbow Babies thread! None of us are alone and we are all one step closer to our own little rainbows! Take care.

 

[alexalomb]

Im sorry, youll be ok, cheer up!