Feeling alone :(

[lauraperrysan]

hey ladies, i know you will understand.

i wrote on the september stars thread that i started bleeding today after bm and was worried.....no-one replied to me instead about 10 or so posts since mine and not one person has even acknoweldegd i wrote it

just feeling a bit alone, im nearly 12 weeks and this shouldn't be happening

anyone else had this and been fine?

xxx

 

[FEDup1981]

Does bm mean baby making? If so, i wouldnt worry too much, ur cervix becomes very vascular and can easily erode like a scratch. Im sure it'll settle down, but if it doesnt then contact ur EPAU. Hugs xxx

 

[Widger]

Sorry you are feeling low Laura xxx

Don't worry about people not replying - some people just don't understand or know what to say. I mean, most of them are blissfully unaware of how worrying it can be to get bleeding let alone have multiple mcs. It won't be personal

As you know, I had bleeding/spotting from 6 weeks and only really stopped just before 12 week scan... I think, I can't actually remember exactly now. Anyway, it then happened again at 15 weeks. It is frightening but it can be blood just working its way out. Please try not to worry, your baby is busy moving around inside and you'll get to seem them next week xxx

 

[lauralora]

Do you mean bowl movment? or baby making? either way hun i wouldnt worry about it, have you not a doppler to listen to HB or did you ring midwife so maybe you could go in and she can have a listen? its always better to reassure your mind, but i no how scary it is, in this pregnany i had a bleed at 14 + 4 days, id had sex with bf then went to the bathroom, i had a pee and wiped myself, then stood up and the blood came out, horrible experience, at the time i didnt no sex can cause this so off i went to the a&e and they kept me in over night and scanned me the next day, i have of course spent the rest of the pregnancy being a nervous wreck!

i think any kind of pressure on the cervix, (intercourse, toilet time) can cause bleeding because theres so much extra blood up there, bleeding doesnt mean its the end, we just always think it does .... but i would encourage you to get checked out just to be on safe side.. big hugs to you hun and hope your feeling better xxxxx

 

[babytots]

Aww hun sorry you got no replies. I barely post in the oct thread in 1st trimester simply because if I have any worries not many people will understand but here I can post anything and know someone will know what I am going through.

I hope the bleeding isn't anything. Sometimes you can bleed after a bm if tmi you push too hard especially if you are constipated so hopefully its just that. x

 

[Drazic<3]

Hey hun,

Lauralora has totally got it, any sort of strain can bring a little bit of blood. Maybe it was from the other end too? I can understand the panic, and sometimes first tri and the stars threads get me down because they don't understand. Like when I said how nervous I was about my NT scan they thought I was mental, or how they say about how PMA is so important, but then they haven't had their pregnancy innocence taken and they just don't see it the same way. We all know what it's like to be scared and I can promise you that you are not alone. I am terrified.

 

[fluffyblue]

Hunni try and relax I know its hard but most of the girls have said it - I think you are referring to bowel movement and its a simple case of piles !

All lovely pregnant women get them crikey I used to scream loads at Noel about it when I was PG with laura and it was always piles as the midwife said.

If you are taking supplements they could be making you a little constipated plus the injections you are having could cause some discomfort as well remember your blood is a lot thinner at the min due to the clexane babe xxxxx

 

[cazza22]

Hope everything is ok Laura x x x lots of love n hugs Caz x x x

 

[lauraperrysan]

thank you ladies, i think i was just having a mini breakdown earlier, it's all really getting to me at the moment and im so so worried about next week im a bitch to be around atm.....my poor oh.
i did mean bowel movement, not baby making, thats been a no no since xmas eve, geeez!!
it was definately not from my bum tho the only time in my life i wish it was lol

and lauralora i do have a doppler, got it delievered yesterday but cant find bubs, only hear the placenta, prob making me even more bloody worried tbh although i know it's still early to find it

thanks again ladies, im getting an early one tonight, too much stress for me today!

xxxxx

 

[Carmello_01]

Hope all is well, and the bleeding has ceased
I know how you feel about the no replies thing...I figure the 'normal' trimester boards are too big and busy generally. I've found the preggy after loss section the best place to get answers and definitely don't feel alone here, or that no-one cares.
Sending lots of love and best wishes for next week!

 

[Smiler13]

Hi Laura, really hope that it was just a little bleeding and that things have settled back down now. Hang in there - not long til that 12-week scan. And don't worry about how you are being, it is natural and am sure you aren't being that bad!

Think that dopplers can be quite hard to use at home - I had one really late on with my daughter and was rubbish at finding the heartbeat, even at 40 weeks!

 

[Rumpskin]

How is the bleeding today lovely? xxx

 

[im_mi]

hows it going sweetie? xxx

 

[lauraperrysan]

hey ladies, sorry for replying so late been working all day!
however bleeding has stopped as quick as it started tbh, it seems to happen after i go for a no 2 but i dont always strain so it's not always that but it seems to be happening quite a bit
i hope it's nothing tho.....only 5 more days to go till scan eeekkkk
xxxx

 

[millwallrose4]

I'm sorry to hear you are having such a worrying time, I hope the bleeding has stopped now and that you are feeling better today.