Feeling defeated.

[erinmeikle94]

Cycle 10 of TTC.
I’ve been struggling with secondary infertility and it makes me want to throw myself out the window. I had my son 4.5 years ago and ever since we have been struggling real bad. I was told I could never have kids when I was younger but I proved them wrong with my son but now I’m just thinking my son was my miracle baby

 

[JessaBear36]

It can take a healthy couple a year to conceive. I'm on year 3 and have had many losses. I get down from time to time.. its hard not 2. Hope it happens for you soon.

 

[Reiko_ctu]

Hugs to both of you... I’m so sorry the wait is so long. I hope your BFPs both some soon.
Erin the down days are just so real. Try to keep hope.

 

[babymoma89]

Hugs for you hun I had by daughter almost 12 years ago and have been trying to have another. I’ve had 4 miscarriages since and still don’t want to lose hope . I feel your pain and I am sending positive thoughts your way

 

[MinnieMcMoose]

I feel your pain.
My daughter just turned 14 and I've been wanting another baby since just before she turned 2, and we've been actively trying since 2012. I had nothing until 2018 when I had two very early losses, but tests show nothing wrong with either of us. And as doc says, we've passed the biggest test - we have a child! If we've done it once, we can do it again.
On the other hand, I was 24 when I had her, I'm now 38, so time is seriously not on my side. Clomid and Letrozole have not resulted in a baby, so not sure whether we go down the IUI route or straight to IVF.
It gets you down, doesn't it?

 

[babymoma89]

It definitely does but gotta remain positive