Feeling down

Discussion in 'Long Term Trying To Conceive' started by Arcanegirl, Oct 23, 2006.

  1. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    The reality has hit me, im getting tests for infertility.
    I never really thought about it before but it has suddenly hit me now and i feel down about it, i never considered there would be problems :( .
     
  2. Tootsie

    Tootsie Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: hun

    i can imagine how you feel but at least one way or another you'll know whats what when all this is over and done.
     
  3. Wobbles

    Wobbles BnB Co-Founder ~ Retired

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    Oh hun I don't know what I could say to help but I can give you a well deserved BIG hug :hugs: You know where we are when the journey starts x
     
  4. beatlesbaby66

    beatlesbaby66 Well-Known Member

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    och babe, nothing any of us say will make it any better or easier, you just have to take one step at a time and see what they say at the appointments.

    big hugs and im on msn just now if you need a chat...bxox
     
  5. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    Just looked and youve gone lol
     
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    Tam Mum of 2 - PG with No.3

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  7. Helen

    Helen ICSI Twins + miracle BFP

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    Aw AG :hugs:

    There's something dreadful about the "I" word, isn't there?

    At least someone is listening at last...

    H

    xx
     
  8. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    Had a good cry about it last night.

    Its not fear of whats to come its just realising that weve had to go this route when i didnt expect it.
     
  9. ElliesMum

    ElliesMum Mum of 2

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    I know how you are feeling to a certain extent. Just had cycle monitoring (luckily all was ok) but suddenly thought "what if its not". The thought of fertility treatment was frightening i must admit. My cousin had lots of fertility treatment after 5 years ttc and actually fell pg naturally.
     
  10. beatlesbaby66

    beatlesbaby66 Well-Known Member

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    oh honey, i am so sorry i missed you.....i will try and be on tomorrow night...my mum is over tonight sorry....hang in there babe...bxoxoxoxooxox
     
  11. Lauz_1601

    Lauz_1601 Well-Known Member

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    aww hun I cant say I know how you feel but I expect it must be pretty daunting for you and something you'd never imagine yourself having to go through. I just hope thing work out ok and you get an answer soon, and if talking helps Im on msn
     
  12. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    Cheers girls :hugs:
     
  13. Wobbles

    Wobbles BnB Co-Founder ~ Retired

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    I say good for you it does you wonders I'm a believer of that just make sure Rob has an ear for you sometimes - Its not words that helps it's an ear & a hug.

    Whats next for you hun & when?
     
  14. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    Appointment tomorrow morning to go over blood test results at 10.30am
     
  15. Helen

    Helen ICSI Twins + miracle BFP

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    Good luck tomorrow. Let us know how you get on.

    :hugs:
     
  16. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    ElliesMum Mum of 2

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    Arcanegirl, how are you doing?
     
  18. StillTrying

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    yes :hugs: how are you me dear?
     
  19. Arcanegirl

    Arcanegirl Bazinga!!

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    Im doing alright. Coming to terms with the fact that it may still be a while before we get pregnant.
    Im currently awaiting an appointment for another hospital which probably wont come through untill January, two months away which i guess isnt such a long wait really.

    My plans were to go to college after we'd had a baby and he/she'd turned 1 but ive decided to look around for some short term courses i could do along with working, CAD being a possibility. The next course on that doesnt start untill January so i still have some time to think about that.
     
  20. Wobbles

    Wobbles BnB Co-Founder ~ Retired

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    "before we get pregnant."

    Personally think you've just made the first step to a positive journey!

    :hugs:
     

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