I feel so bad my sister just lost her baby yday! she jus made 21 on the 7th and she just made 7 months pregnant 2 weeks ago. She didnt feel him move on Sunday and everyone told her to jus drink something cold it should wake him up. Yesterday she called me saying she didnt feel him moving still and asked if i think it was a good idea to go to the doctor...i told her everything was fine go back to bed but she went to the hospital and sadly to say they could not find a heart beat 
. my mom called and told e she had lost the baby and all i cud do was burst out in tears. my lil sister has been ecstatic about her pregnancy never thought about getting an abortion or non of that she even knew what she was having and naming him and we were setting shower dates for her. Now where the unworthy feeling comes in with me is because i have had so much stuff going on i have been thinking bout getting an abortion and trying to figure out if im doing the right thing by having this baby. i feel bad because here she is doing everything right doing everything she can to make sure baby has it all for her to lose him in the blink of an eye and im sitting here contemplating if i want y child or not. how selfish can i b. wen so many woman want to be pregnant wantto have a child and just cant i dont know what to do with myself i am an emotional wreck now im sitting at the hospital with her watching her sleep until labor jumpstart so she can push him out. she said she dont even want to see him they offer to have a preacher come in dress the baby and we can have a service she dont want it but i explained to her this was her baby he was whole u can dress him and take a picture in his remembrance she agreed but it jus hurts soo bad
. my mom called and told e she had lost the baby and all i cud do was burst out in tears. my lil sister has been ecstatic about her pregnancy never thought about getting an abortion or non of that she even knew what she was having and naming him and we were setting shower dates for her. Now where the unworthy feeling comes in with me is because i have had so much stuff going on i have been thinking bout getting an abortion and trying to figure out if im doing the right thing by having this baby. i feel bad because here she is doing everything right doing everything she can to make sure baby has it all for her to lose him in the blink of an eye and im sitting here contemplating if i want y child or not. how selfish can i b. wen so many woman want to be pregnant wantto have a child and just cant i dont know what to do with myself i am an emotional wreck now im sitting at the hospital with her watching her sleep until labor jumpstart so she can push him out. she said she dont even want to see him they offer to have a preacher come in dress the baby and we can have a service she dont want it but i explained to her this was her baby he was whole u can dress him and take a picture in his remembrance she agreed but it jus hurts soo bad
- but don't let your thoughts about your bub make you feel unworthy! We all go through those thoughts in the first trimester 'will I be good enough' I thought I would be an awful parent, and having an abortion would be doing it a favour, but those thoughts go away, and now I cannot imagine life without my daughter, she has made all the things I thought were bad in me, go away, and I never imagined I could have so much love for one little person! - give it a chance (if you want of course, I'm pro choice so I don't want to come across as pushy)
