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This may sound extremely selfish.......one of my close friends has been seeing her BF for coming up to 18 months. They moved in together in June last year. I'm really happy for them and love them both to bits.
I was having a conversation with my mate and she was saying that they had been talking about starting a family. Not right now, but maybe towards the end of the year. I immediately panicked. My husband and I have been TTC for 3 years now with no luck. I just thought 'what if she becomes pregnant and has a baby before me'. I just wanted to cry. My husband and I really want to have a child. It just hasn't happened for us yet.
I'm just worried that my friend will have her bundle of joy and I'll still be left empty handed. Sounds totally selfish, I know. But I really can't help how I feel
I was having a conversation with my mate and she was saying that they had been talking about starting a family. Not right now, but maybe towards the end of the year. I immediately panicked. My husband and I have been TTC for 3 years now with no luck. I just thought 'what if she becomes pregnant and has a baby before me'. I just wanted to cry. My husband and I really want to have a child. It just hasn't happened for us yet.
I'm just worried that my friend will have her bundle of joy and I'll still be left empty handed. Sounds totally selfish, I know. But I really can't help how I feel