katerdid
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My husband can be so stupid sometimes. I brought up the idea of taking a birthing class at my hospital and he scoffed at it. Asked me why I would need to take one because isn't it "something that happens naturally"? He thinks giving birth is like having sex - you don't really need to know anything about it beforehand, it just comes to you by instinct.
Ok, granted, your body generally knows what it's supposed to do. However, your mind really doesn't. At least in my case, where I've never given birth before. So ya think I'd like to be prepared and informed about what's going to be happening? And I think I would like someone there to help me through it, don't you agree?
I've come to the conclusion that my husband, my support, isn't going to be any help at all. And I'm going to need some support as my family lives 12 hours away and probably won't make it to the birth.
So maybe I should start looking into hiring a doula? I'm 25 weeks, so I don't have a lot of time left. Where should I start? How do I do this?
Ok, granted, your body generally knows what it's supposed to do. However, your mind really doesn't. At least in my case, where I've never given birth before. So ya think I'd like to be prepared and informed about what's going to be happening? And I think I would like someone there to help me through it, don't you agree?
I've come to the conclusion that my husband, my support, isn't going to be any help at all. And I'm going to need some support as my family lives 12 hours away and probably won't make it to the birth.
So maybe I should start looking into hiring a doula? I'm 25 weeks, so I don't have a lot of time left. Where should I start? How do I do this?