fireworks

[jaytee146]

yesterday Fob asked would i mind if we took lo to watch the fireworks for the first time. i said Sure thinking it was harmless. we actually discovered a restaurant right on the water and a beautiful window to view the show from. we ordered our food and waited. lo seemed to be okay and was happy playing. later on in the evening several beautiful women walked by and Fob took it upon him self to watch these women walk by and commented "Damn" i didn't say a word as Fob and i aren't dating. we were there for our little girl. . . well a little bit later several people come and sit a table or so from us and there is this guy who is sitting there staring. i eventually dismissed it as he was trying to look over us and see the fireworks out the window. well the show begins and lo is a little fussy so i nurse her and she enjoy's watching the colors. i hand her back to Fob and every fewMinutes i glance back to see lo's reactions and to make sure Fob was okay. well after the show i stand up and Fob yells Get the number. i have no clue what he's talking about so i continue Walking. i waited on Fob to pay the bill and we walk outside. he asked "do you Get turned on from other Guy's" i said wow! where did that come from? by now lo is sleepy and fussy but he stops to bum a square and sits outside the car laughing and talking to himself. he gets in the car looks at me and laughs. i say what's so funny and he say's you. hetalks on his cell the entire trip while lo is screaming. we make it to my house and he takes lo in. i reach out for her and he say's well lo is Asleep. did you Get the number? i asked what was he talking about and clearly he has some insecurities that he needs to work out. apparently i sat and passed flirting glances with some guy while my child was around. and him commenting on the beautiful women doesn't hold a candle to me flirting with this guy. i excused him from my house. he even called and asked did i get the Guy's number. and said that i'm angry because i'm guilty. needless to say . i no more outtings

 

[resursval]

yesterday Fob asked would i mind if we took lo to watch the fireworks for the first time. i said Sure thinking it was harmless. we actually discovered a restaurant right on the water and a beautiful window to view the show from. we ordered our food and waited. lo seemed to be okay and was happy playing. later on in the evening several beautiful women walked by and Fob took it upon him self to watch these women walk by and commented "Damn" i didn't say a word as Fob and i aren't dating. we were there for our little girl. . . well a little bit later several people come and sit a table or so from us and there is this guy who is sitting there staring. i eventually dismissed it as he was trying to look over us and see the fireworks out the window. well the show begins and lo is a little fussy so i nurse her and she enjoy's watching the colors. i hand her back to Fob and every fewMinutes i glance back to see lo's reactions and to make sure Fob was okay. well after the show i stand up and Fob yells Get the number. i have no clue what he's talking about so i continue Walking. i waited on Fob to pay the bill and we walk outside. he asked "do you Get turned on from other Guy's" i said wow! where did that come from? by now lo is sleepy and fussy but he stops to bum a square and sits outside the car laughing and talking to himself. he gets in the car looks at me and laughs. i say what's so funny and he say's you. hetalks on his cell the entire trip while lo is screaming. we make it to my house and he takes lo in. i reach out for her and he say's well lo is Asleep. did you Get the number? i asked what was he talking about and clearly he has some insecurities that he needs to work out. apparently i sat and passed flirting glances with some guy while my child was around. and him commenting on the beautiful women doesn't hold a candle to me flirting with this guy. i excused him from my house. he even called and asked did i get the Guy's number. and said that i'm angry because i'm guilty. needless to say . i no more outtings

A very insecure and immature man by the sounds of this. Good for you that you are separated. And is that really the behavior for a man to show his daughter? That women are flesh that men can make loud comments on and stare at? Gross and foul behavior!

 

[jaytee146]

I feel horrible for yelling at Fob both at my home and over the phone, only because it was in the presence of our child. today i was watching a tv show and yelled wow! this loud noise sent her into an uproar for almost fifteen minutes. i don't want to be that angry woman when he's around. and i want him to see that he and i both have issues that we need to seek help for. just because he's around now he feels the need to want to be in my life as well. i keep trying to explain that this isn't what's best. he has a ton of trust issues and insecurities. since i'm not the same passive person he dated that'll apologize when i have done nothing wrong. i'm not the person anymore who's gonna take his crap because i realize now it's not about me it's about our child. and i don't want an argument with us destroy their relationship. he doesn't understand and yells it's another guy! i try to keep my calm but it's very difficult